"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You seriously need to get out of that little conner you call home and experience the world.

If you can't, then find one of those guys that works in caterpillar, ask him how much housing allowance he's paid when he's in Singapore or Jakarta.

Then you'll realise my USD$5k per month housing allowance is peanuts.

However its dependent on location as you rightly pointed out.

If I was in Hong-Kong, I'll get more lol.
Well, I would say that that's fvcking baller, kid.

Again, gracious to have your presence basically 24/7. Tell me more about your job.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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@TyTe`EyEz what do you think about men from
SE Asia, in a third-world country replete with such poverty that he can buy women for as little as 100 per month preaching advice on to have harems of women (who desire the man outside of being bought) in the US—with words I have given him since he joined Sosuave a year and 6000 posts ago?
 
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@TyTe`EyEz what do you think about men from
SE Asia, in a third-world country replete with such poverty that he can buy women for as little as 100 per month preaching advice on to have harems of women (who desire the man outside of being bought) in the US—with words I have given him since he joined Sosuave a year and 6000 posts ago?
Constantly jocking you, bro.

When I'm banging chicks from here on out, I'm going to call them orspazms.
 

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@TyTe`EyEz what do you think about men from
SE Asia, in a third-world country replete with such poverty that he can buy women for as little as 100 per month preaching advice on to have harems of women (who desire the man outside of being bought) in the US—with words I have given him since he joined Sosuave a year and 6000 posts ago?
You're come to join in the fun guru hahaha
 

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Well, I would say that that's fvcking baller, kid.

Again, gracious to have your presence basically 24/7. Tell me more about your job.
Would you like me to tell you how to easily earn some seed money in ur country by doing almost nothing?

I can give even better financial advice then ex Wall Street losers.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Would you like me to tell you how to easily earn some seed money in ur country by doing almost nothing?

I can give even better financial advice then ex Wall Street losers.
Ah yes, preach to him about the flea market/vending you got going in Indonesia. If the girls costs 100 per month, how much are the shish kebabs?
 
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Would you like me to tell you how to easily earn some seed money in ur country by doing almost nothing?

I can give even better financial advice then ex Wall Street losers.
I've been pretty open about how you steal other people's ideas and make them your own. I think you're a fraud.

Edit - a creative fraud
 

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I can always tell when someone has never worked internationally. If I needed big money I would be back doing it.
 

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Ah yes, preach to him about the flea market/vending you got going in Indonesia. If the girls costs 100 per month, how much are the shish kebabs?
You forgot my 700 acres of useless cheap land..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've been pretty open about how you steal other people's ideas and make them your own. I think you're a fraud.

Edit - a creative fraud
This is true.

But we have to give him credit for one idea he keeps reiterating:

“How you think is how you act is how you do things”

Or something like that. He sounds autistic every time he types it
 

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I can always tell when someone has never worked internationally. If I needed big money I would be back doing it.
They have no clue of even the market rate of rental in places like Singapore or Hong Kong.

Wait till they see the prices in shanghai.
 
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This is true.

But we have to give him credit for one idea he keeps reiterating:

“How you think is how you act is how you do things”

Or something like that. He sounds autistic every time he types it
Sh1t, guru, I'll do you one easier, "should have manned up."

No sh1t.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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And each time I mentioned ur teenage pranks, you get all excited don't you.
Teenager is not in my consciousness to be aware of the word. Seems to be in yours tho. Ah That’s right, admitted pedophile in that closed thread, no? Or do 14 yr olds not count as minors in Indonesia?
 

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Sh1t, guru, I'll do you one easier, "should have manned up."

No sh1t.
Actually I was pulling ur leg earlier in this thread to get you out of ur current malaise.

You are ur own worst enemy, it was never me.
 

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Teenager is not in my consciousness to be aware of the word. Seems to be in yours tho. Ah That’s right, admitted pedophile in that closed thread, no? Or do 14 yr olds not count as minors in Indonesia?
You seem upset guru..

That you feel the need to accuse me of being a pedophile.
 

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You seem upset guru..

That you feel the need to accuse me of being a pedophile.
Yes terribly.

Oh so you’re now a recovered pedophilic after that pouncing? Good for you
 

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Yes terribly.

Oh so you’re now a recovered pedophilic after that pouncing? Good for you
It goes to show how emotional you actually are and how easy it is to push ur buttons.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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