You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
the big man's gettin ripped eh?Originally posted by Lifeforce
I'm down to 166 lbs...
but I've lost a ****load off water because I'm really sick... Anyways.. I look alot better, the abs are comming out I think...
I'm working on itOriginally posted by gav
the big man's gettin ripped eh?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
All okey man... now I'm back stronger and meaner. Everyone was sick... it was cold and ruthless in sweden.. but I haven't been sick for many months so it was finally my time I guess.Originally posted by Double
oh **** you're still sick. but look at your sweet little abs slowly comming out! it's like the birth of a man's baby!!
is it so cold in sweden or why are you sick? here the sun shines and the snow is slowly melting, i will go for some running hehe. oh, and thx for your mail, i will write you one more ok...
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.