"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The one hour max rule

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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These days I do a 3 day split for weights - Legs/Push/Pull - Mon/Wed/Fri
But from Mon-Sat I do a 3km row and a 6 km jog

If its a weight training day then warmup on the air rower for 3km do weights then a 6km jog on the treadmill.
If non weight day then I go down to the rowing club and try get out onto the water and do the 3km row and jog in the evening.

I"m 37 ,180 cm between 86-90 kgs very lean solid shoulders as I can shoulder press more than I can bench. Never was a very strong Bencher.
 

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These days I do a 3 day split for weights - Legs/Push/Pull - Mon/Wed/Fri
But from Mon-Sat I do a 3km row and a 6 km jog

If its a weight training day then warmup on the air rower for 3km do weights then a 6km jog on the treadmill.
If non weight day then I go down to the rowing club and try get out onto the water and do the 3km row and jog in the evening.

I"m 37 ,180 cm between 86-90 kgs very lean solid shoulders as I can shoulder press more than I can bench. Never was a very strong Bencher.
3 km Row and 6km jog 6 days a week? That's a lot of cardio. What are your goals with this program?
 

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I'm in the gym for 30 minutes per day, 3 days a week.
 

typical

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3 km Row and 6km jog 6 days a week? That's a lot of cardio. What are your goals with this program?
I'm 37 years old 90kgs and have maintained that weight for a good 10 years now, I don't want to get unfit as I've played multiple contact sports since I was 6 years old Rugby/League and some Grid Iron. Done Muay Thai from 16-26. Rowed and done Sailing at an almost professional level from 19-now.

So a very active last 18 years or so right now my goal is to maintain the same level of fitness as I have this absurd goal to Climb Everest before I die. If I ever do manage to do it I'll post up a writeup about it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm 37 years old 90kgs and have maintained that weight for a good 10 years now, I don't want to get unfit as I've played multiple contact sports since I was 6 years old Rugby/League and some Grid Iron. Done Muay Thai from 16-26. Rowed and done Sailing at an almost professional level from 19-now.

So a very active last 18 years or so right now my goal is to maintain the same level of fitness as I have this absurd goal to Climb Everest before I die. If I ever do manage to do it I'll post up a writeup about it.
Well alright alright that's epic. Keep getting after it man no slowing down.
 

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the philosophy we stand by where i come from is if ur doing serious heavy lifting, no more than 35-45 mins a workout

but if you're doin calinsthenics, 2-3 and sometimes 4 hours is fine.. with heavy breaks and chit chat in between.. (ie: think your NYC park workouts)
 
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