"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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the ol' switcheroo.

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well. ive been busting this one chicks chops for a while, was with her tonight and she was all over me all night. begging me to come out with her blah blah blah its in the bag. BUT: tonight i met one of her friends. we have ****ing awesome eye contact all night, and i like her soo much more than the first chick. to put it bluntly, i want the other girl. tomorrow night im goin out with both of them and some other people. so.... do any of you have any suggestions about dealing with the first girl... like...keeping her away long enough so i can lay it down on the new one?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Better to just let the one who likes you already continue to drool all over you while making covert bedroom eyes with the one you want. Then when the moment is right, later in the night, slide her your number on a piece of paper discretely. Put your name, number and "our little secret, don't tell anyone" on it. That way you can bang the one who likes you already, and maybe hatch something up with the friend later.

Gamble though, if she snitches on you then you may end up with nothing, but whatever, who cares...
Dime a dozen right?
Peace
 
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One girl wants what the other one has. Girl Politics 101.

I've seen this scenario backfire before, here's how it goes: Guy meets Girl A, goes smoothly. Then Girl B comes around, rock n roll hoochie coo! Guy ditches Girl A for Girl B, who is suddenly not interested anymore, and once again he chokes the chicken in frustration and anger.

I would be a sneaky bastard and get the first one THEN work the second one when discretion is possible.
 
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thanks for the advice. i see your point, but these girls are friends, so in my opinion it will only work if i take one or the other. I am going out with them tonight again, so I am just going to try and get girl B. if it works, great. if not, at the end of the night I will take girl A.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dont be stupid.

to the rest:

the night is over..****ing...i ****ed it up pretty bad. i mean i still hooked up with girl a, so its not like i didnt get any action. but i ****ed i didnt hook up with girl b. girl a wouldnt leave me alone for more than 30 seconds the whole night, no matter what i tried. so now i guess my only option is to tell her it was just a one night deal, and then try to get the other.
 
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Unbridled_Phoenix said:
One girl wants what the other one has. Girl Politics 101.

I've seen this scenario backfire before, here's how it goes: Guy meets Girl A, goes smoothly. Then Girl B comes around, rock n roll hoochie coo! Guy ditches Girl A for Girl B, who is suddenly not interested anymore, and once again he chokes the chicken in frustration and anger.

I would be a sneaky bastard and get the first one THEN work the second one when discretion is possible.
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This. What's going on is simple preselection/social proof. Don't burn your bridges with the first chick, bang her if you like her physically at least, then friend zone her or get her on your team as an FB/FWB. That's the best case scenario and will ensure the second chick will still be hot for you. Hell, you might even get referral sex from banging the first chick.
 
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