"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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the ol' switcheroo.

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well. ive been busting this one chicks chops for a while, was with her tonight and she was all over me all night. begging me to come out with her blah blah blah its in the bag. BUT: tonight i met one of her friends. we have ****ing awesome eye contact all night, and i like her soo much more than the first chick. to put it bluntly, i want the other girl. tomorrow night im goin out with both of them and some other people. so.... do any of you have any suggestions about dealing with the first girl... like...keeping her away long enough so i can lay it down on the new one?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Better to just let the one who likes you already continue to drool all over you while making covert bedroom eyes with the one you want. Then when the moment is right, later in the night, slide her your number on a piece of paper discretely. Put your name, number and "our little secret, don't tell anyone" on it. That way you can bang the one who likes you already, and maybe hatch something up with the friend later.

Gamble though, if she snitches on you then you may end up with nothing, but whatever, who cares...
Dime a dozen right?
Peace
 
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One girl wants what the other one has. Girl Politics 101.

I've seen this scenario backfire before, here's how it goes: Guy meets Girl A, goes smoothly. Then Girl B comes around, rock n roll hoochie coo! Guy ditches Girl A for Girl B, who is suddenly not interested anymore, and once again he chokes the chicken in frustration and anger.

I would be a sneaky bastard and get the first one THEN work the second one when discretion is possible.
 
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thanks for the advice. i see your point, but these girls are friends, so in my opinion it will only work if i take one or the other. I am going out with them tonight again, so I am just going to try and get girl B. if it works, great. if not, at the end of the night I will take girl A.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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@hellomisslady

dont be stupid.

to the rest:

the night is over..****ing...i ****ed it up pretty bad. i mean i still hooked up with girl a, so its not like i didnt get any action. but i ****ed i didnt hook up with girl b. girl a wouldnt leave me alone for more than 30 seconds the whole night, no matter what i tried. so now i guess my only option is to tell her it was just a one night deal, and then try to get the other.
 
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Unbridled_Phoenix said:
One girl wants what the other one has. Girl Politics 101.

I've seen this scenario backfire before, here's how it goes: Guy meets Girl A, goes smoothly. Then Girl B comes around, rock n roll hoochie coo! Guy ditches Girl A for Girl B, who is suddenly not interested anymore, and once again he chokes the chicken in frustration and anger.

I would be a sneaky bastard and get the first one THEN work the second one when discretion is possible.
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This. What's going on is simple preselection/social proof. Don't burn your bridges with the first chick, bang her if you like her physically at least, then friend zone her or get her on your team as an FB/FWB. That's the best case scenario and will ensure the second chick will still be hot for you. Hell, you might even get referral sex from banging the first chick.
 
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