"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The Official Valentines Thread
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
for instance, some people would love balloons that covered their entire bedroom and some want a teddy bear.
some want to go to a concert and others want a new cd.
isnt it a silly holiday?
by the way, i want is to cuddle up and watch a movie with gio.
On the other hand, it's also the ultimate single-awareness-day. And you know what that means...Yup, lots of lovesick girls out there with no dates that feels lonely and unpopular due to no extra attention. So it's a good chance to ask a girl you like out casually without making a big deal out of it. Just make it seem like a simple get-togheter, then blow her mind on the date
My gameplan is to ask a girl over for dinner. Make fun of the day in general and do chump-impressions or some ****
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It's not an issue on money. Dude, you're over a month early starting to think how you can please a girl. If that doesn't ring at all the 'supplication' buttom in your head, then maybe, just maybe, you need to reconsider things.
Who said that not supplicating was an uber-alpha thing to do?
Woah, who said this was for any girl that I'm trying to court?
This is for a good friend of mine who I have been mates with since I was young and I wanted to do something nice for her. Its not about being alpha or afc, its about thanking her for the past years.
Month early, yes. Why? Because I figured if there was some cool things in the States then I would need time to ship them to New Zealand.
I aint trying to court this girl. This girl has been like a sister to me and I was trying to show my appreciation. Yes, very AFC thing to do but I aint gaming her. I'm not trying to seduce her.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
GiZiM
New Member
Normally i dont ask for help im normally pretty good at doing it on my own but maybe someone out there has a great idea.
So let me tell you a little about what im looking im 23 she is 19 we just got together dated for a month or so things are going great no problems. We are really close and very much into each other so i want to do something nice for her but i dont want to go way over the top here. I want to leave something for next year and something to grow on you know?. I was thinking maybe a spa treatment for two? got any other suggestions? oh and yes we have done it like stoned test bunnies.
I've never done the spa thing... but I bet it'd be awesome... and sex afterwards? hehehe
I was thiking dinner at a nice place like P.F. Changs... then sex
If we get that far by then... 2/14 eh? yeah I'll be banging by then! But the spa thing might not be a bad idea... a bit feminine but... I dunno...
later bro
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
GiZiM
New Member
Ah, I have done the spa treatment for two before and it was great a place down here called Adigo (sp?) that has a great spa treatment for two even shower together w00t.Originally posted by Scorched
Well sounds like you two are getting serious GiZim.
I've never done the spa thing... but I bet it'd be awesome... and sex afterwards? hehehe
I was thiking dinner at a nice place like P.F. Changs... then sex
If we get that far by then... 2/14 eh? yeah I'll be banging by then! But the spa thing might not be a bad idea... a bit feminine but... I dunno...
later bro
GiZiM
New Member
yes... yes you can