"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
for instance, some people would love balloons that covered their entire bedroom and some want a teddy bear.
some want to go to a concert and others want a new cd.
isnt it a silly holiday?
by the way, i want is to cuddle up and watch a movie with gio.
On the other hand, it's also the ultimate single-awareness-day. And you know what that means...Yup, lots of lovesick girls out there with no dates that feels lonely and unpopular due to no extra attention. So it's a good chance to ask a girl you like out casually without making a big deal out of it. Just make it seem like a simple get-togheter, then blow her mind on the date
My gameplan is to ask a girl over for dinner. Make fun of the day in general and do chump-impressions or some ****
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's not an issue on money. Dude, you're over a month early starting to think how you can please a girl. If that doesn't ring at all the 'supplication' buttom in your head, then maybe, just maybe, you need to reconsider things.
Who said that not supplicating was an uber-alpha thing to do?
Woah, who said this was for any girl that I'm trying to court?
This is for a good friend of mine who I have been mates with since I was young and I wanted to do something nice for her. Its not about being alpha or afc, its about thanking her for the past years.
Month early, yes. Why? Because I figured if there was some cool things in the States then I would need time to ship them to New Zealand.
I aint trying to court this girl. This girl has been like a sister to me and I was trying to show my appreciation. Yes, very AFC thing to do but I aint gaming her. I'm not trying to seduce her.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
GiZiM
New Member
Normally i dont ask for help im normally pretty good at doing it on my own but maybe someone out there has a great idea.
So let me tell you a little about what im looking im 23 she is 19 we just got together dated for a month or so things are going great no problems. We are really close and very much into each other so i want to do something nice for her but i dont want to go way over the top here. I want to leave something for next year and something to grow on you know?. I was thinking maybe a spa treatment for two? got any other suggestions? oh and yes we have done it like stoned test bunnies.
I've never done the spa thing... but I bet it'd be awesome... and sex afterwards? hehehe
I was thiking dinner at a nice place like P.F. Changs... then sex
If we get that far by then... 2/14 eh? yeah I'll be banging by then! But the spa thing might not be a bad idea... a bit feminine but... I dunno...
later bro
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
GiZiM
New Member
Ah, I have done the spa treatment for two before and it was great a place down here called Adigo (sp?) that has a great spa treatment for two even shower together w00t.Originally posted by Scorched
Well sounds like you two are getting serious GiZim.
I've never done the spa thing... but I bet it'd be awesome... and sex afterwards? hehehe
I was thiking dinner at a nice place like P.F. Changs... then sex
If we get that far by then... 2/14 eh? yeah I'll be banging by then! But the spa thing might not be a bad idea... a bit feminine but... I dunno...
later bro
GiZiM
New Member
yes... yes you can