“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The Official Valentines Thread

Ouzo

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I'm stuck on a few ideas for Valentines Day. I know its a bit early but I want to be organised this year.

Who has found some cool ideas for V Day?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gonzalo

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How bout this for an early idea to keep in mind: not go about spending money and supplicating to girls through this AFC-friendly pseudo holiday?

G
 

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depends on the type of relationship ...

for instance, some people would love balloons that covered their entire bedroom and some want a teddy bear.
some want to go to a concert and others want a new cd.

isnt it a silly holiday?

by the way, i want is to cuddle up and watch a movie with gio.
 

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It's the ultimate AFC-day. Don't do anything special. Atleast don't waste your money. On that day, I can assure you that there are ALWAYS lots of needy Master-AFC's that has thought out the "cleverest" plots to make a girl love him. How cute...:rolleyes:

On the other hand, it's also the ultimate single-awareness-day. And you know what that means...Yup, lots of lovesick girls out there with no dates that feels lonely and unpopular due to no extra attention. So it's a good chance to ask a girl you like out casually without making a big deal out of it. Just make it seem like a simple get-togheter, then blow her mind on the date :)

My gameplan is to ask a girl over for dinner. Make fun of the day in general and do chump-impressions or some **** :p
 

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Originally posted by Gonzalo
How bout this for an early idea to keep in mind: not go about spending money and supplicating to girls through this AFC-friendly pseudo holiday?

G
Money isn't an issue for me. Please stop with your mega-Alpha bull****.

I bet your the type who reads every text ever written on seduction and follows it religiously.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Ouzo
Money isn't an issue for me. Please stop with your mega-Alpha bull****.

I bet your the type who reads every text ever written on seduction and follows it religiously.
It's not an issue on money. Dude, you're over a month early starting to think how you can please a girl. If that doesn't ring at all the 'supplication' buttom in your head, then maybe, just maybe, you need to reconsider things.

Who said that not supplicating was an uber-alpha thing to do?
 

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Originally posted by Gonzalo
It's not an issue on money. Dude, you're over a month early starting to think how you can please a girl. If that doesn't ring at all the 'supplication' buttom in your head, then maybe, just maybe, you need to reconsider things.

Who said that not supplicating was an uber-alpha thing to do?
Woah, who said this was for any girl that I'm trying to court?

This is for a good friend of mine who I have been mates with since I was young and I wanted to do something nice for her. Its not about being alpha or afc, its about thanking her for the past years.

Month early, yes. Why? Because I figured if there was some cool things in the States then I would need time to ship them to New Zealand.

I aint trying to court this girl. This girl has been like a sister to me and I was trying to show my appreciation. Yes, very AFC thing to do but I aint gaming her. I'm not trying to seduce her.
 

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lol. I acctually dont care about getting a valentine. That will work itself out. Right now Im practicing for a solo our choir is doing in front of the school for valentines day "For the longest time" Billy Joel.
 

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Need a bit of a suggestion for this V-Day.

Normally i dont ask for help im normally pretty good at doing it on my own but maybe someone out there has a great idea.

So let me tell you a little about what im looking im 23 she is 19 we just got together dated for a month or so things are going great no problems. We are really close and very much into each other so i want to do something nice for her but i dont want to go way over the top here. I want to leave something for next year and something to grow on you know?. I was thinking maybe a spa treatment for two? got any other suggestions? oh and yes we have done it like stoned test bunnies.
 

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Well sounds like you two are getting serious GiZim.
I've never done the spa thing... but I bet it'd be awesome... and sex afterwards? hehehe

I was thiking dinner at a nice place like P.F. Changs... then sex :)
If we get that far by then... 2/14 eh? yeah I'll be banging by then! But the spa thing might not be a bad idea... a bit feminine but... I dunno...

later bro
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Scorched
Well sounds like you two are getting serious GiZim.
I've never done the spa thing... but I bet it'd be awesome... and sex afterwards? hehehe

I was thiking dinner at a nice place like P.F. Changs... then sex :)
If we get that far by then... 2/14 eh? yeah I'll be banging by then! But the spa thing might not be a bad idea... a bit feminine but... I dunno...

later bro
Ah, I have done the spa treatment for two before and it was great a place down here called Adigo (sp?) that has a great spa treatment for two even shower together w00t.
 

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Can you **** in the shower? HAHAHHAHAHA!
That'd be clean... Almost like doing it in public... hmmmmm
 

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Originally posted by Scorched
Can you **** in the shower? HAHAHHAHAHA!
That'd be clean... Almost like doing it in public... hmmmmm
yes... yes you can :)
 
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