“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

Roober

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I feel the sameye way in my situation. I finally realized if it ever is going to work it would require her to come back admitting her wrong doing, apologizing, and actually wanting to make things work. You can't make it work with someone who doesn't want to. So the only option is NC. If she really values you then she'll come back and make the necessary changes. If she doesnt, you don't want her anyway.
That's it right there! She was willing to let you go, and she would certainly do it again! She would rather be alone (or with someone else) than have you in her life. f*** her!!!!
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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You can look at a previous post a few days ago I asked that question. I got replies saying both block and unblock. I have decided that blocking typically means you're not over the person. Otherwise why would you have them blocked at all? I currently have her unblocked, I think as time goes on it shows that I don't give a ****. She can look at my stuff all she wants to. She can contact me all she wants to. I'm not letting her in again. I'd be happy to hear more opinions on the situation, but now if I block her it's going to show that I'm still thinking about her. My 2 cents.

Day 8...OK... so this AM I decided to block her in every way possible. I decided to do this more for me. I realized I was looking at her social media too much and she still uses it to manipulate me. She posts sad pics then 1/2 naked pics etc... and maybe I'm being crazy to think that she does it to f with me and that she wouldn't post these pics anyway, but it does f with me so I need to stop. If she is doing to me intentionally (which i think is likely) then why give her that power? It's like she post these pics that are like..."hey where'd you go? Please contact me so I can stomp on you emotionally".

So she's blocked on everything and I don't foresee any reasons to ever unblock her.
 

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Day 8...OK... so this AM I decided to block her in every way possible. I decided to do this more for me. I realized I was looking at her social media way too much and she still uses it to manipulate me. She posts sad pics then 1/2 naked pics etc... and maybe I'm being crazy to think that she does it to f with me and that she wouldn't post these pics anyway, but it does f with me so I need to stop. If she is doing to me intentionally (which i think is likely) then why give her that power? She posts these pics that are like..."hey where'd you go? Please contact me so I can stomp on you emotionally".

So she's blocked on everything and I don't foresee any reasons to ever unblock her.
 

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Good video! F**k em!


I really like the tree analogy, may have to keep that in my repertoire
 
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Man I feel like **** I keep thinking about her smile and great sense of humor.. sucks a lot. She hasn't said one word to me in the 7 days. Does that mean she really just doesn't give a ****?
 

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Man I feel like **** I keep thinking about her smile and great sense of humor.. sucks a lot. She hasn't said one word to me in the 7 days. Does that mean she really just doesn't give a ****?
Sometimes I feel like we're all going after the same women! LOL! She didnt care as much as you do. If you still want her continue NC. Wait 4 her to contact you. She will.
 

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How did we end up like this? Lol we had life all figured out before this
 

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Lonely Friday night, getting some
Work done and she's still looking at all my snapchats..getting a lot of memories of how sexy she looked wearing jogging pants around the house..she had a perfect stomach too ahhh
 

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Lonely Friday night, getting some
Work done and she's still looking at all my snapchats..getting a lot of memories of how sexy she looked wearing jogging pants around the house..she had a perfect stomach too ahhh
Dude, stop tormenting yourself by checking if she looks at your Snapchat!
 

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I know I know lol..but that **** has to mean something?
You know, here in Germany we have a word for that, it's called "Hirnwich-serei", which translates to something like "Massively fvcking up your brain"
And that is exactly what you are doing by thinking about that kind of stuff.
For your own sanity, stop it man. It doesn't make it easier.
 

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Day 8...OK... so this AM I decided to block her in every way possible. I decided to do this more for me. I realized I was looking at her social media way too much and she still uses it to manipulate me. She posts sad pics then 1/2 naked pics etc... and maybe I'm being crazy to think that she does it to f with me and that she wouldn't post these pics anyway, but it does f with me so I need to stop. If she is doing to me intentionally (which i think is likely) then why give her that power? She posts these pics that are like..."hey where'd you go? Please contact me so I can stomp on you emotionally".
Lonely Friday night, getting some
Work done and she's still looking at all my snapchats..getting a lot of memories of how sexy she looked wearing jogging pants around the house..she had a perfect stomach too ahhh
Dude, you need to get a grip. We are all lonely sometimes. Snap yourself out of it and get busy doing something. Anything. If you are not socializing with friends and you are in the house on your own then go for a run, paint a picture, read a book, watch some movies and try to stop obsessing about her. Fvkk her, it is her loss, you will replace her in time. Think the long game dude. You are not on your own, all of us have these feelings of loss. It will get better.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Day 9... I have to say it's getting easier and easier. Although I still check her social media more than I should. Mainly just to see if I'm still blocked or not. The last few days she unblocked me then today blocked me again. I still have her blocked. Mainly just to make it harder to look at her stuff. I'm working on decrease the frequency I check it.

The longer I go NC the more I realize how dumb, immature, toxic, and manipulative this chick was. It's nice to finally have my head out of my ass.

Went snowboarding today by myself and it was great. I highly suggest you guys get out and do something to occupy your time.
 

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Day 9... I have to say it's getting easier and easier. Although I still check her social media more than I should. Mainly just to see if I'm still blocked or not. The last few days she unblocked me then today blocked me again. I still have her blocked. Mainly just to make it harder to look at her stuff. I'm working on decrease the frequency I check it.

The longer I go NC the more I realize how dumb, immature, toxic, and manipulative this chick was. It's nice to finally have my head out of my ass.

Went snowboarding today by myself and it was great. I highly suggest you guys get out and do something to occupy your time.
You should stop checking social media 100% dude. You are torturing yourself needlessly. Why are you so interested in what she is doing? Let it go, you are an educated man - you should know better.
 

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Well after 13 days nc I've decided to post in this thread. Around Christmas and I was just part of this thread not long ago. It was so out of the blue I can't come to peace in my heart or mind really struggling almost thinking about seeing a priest or something I miss her and her daughter.
 

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Well after 13 days nc I've decided to post in this thread. Around Christmas and I was just part of this thread not long ago. It was so out of the blue I can't come to peace in my heart or mind really struggling almost thinking about seeing a priest or something I miss her and her daughter.
Hang in there dude. The Christmas and holidays heightens the sense of her not being with you. It will pass. Many of us feeling the same. But man, think of it this way - you do not WANT a woman who does't want to be with you right? She is now cleared out to make way for someone who WILL want to be with you in the future. Think the long game dude.
 

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Hang in there dude. The Christmas and holidays heightens the sense of her not being with you. It will pass. Many of us feeling the same. But man, think of it this way - you do not WANT a woman who does't want to be with you right? She is now cleared out to make way for someone who WILL want to be with you in the future. Think the long game dude.
That's really what it boils down to. You have to accept that she doesn't want you any more. Let her go...
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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