"You’re a great guy and I like you and care about you a lot...I really do mean that. But as I reflect I feel there’s part of me that’s feeling I shouldn’t be worrying about relationships at all for a little while."Hello. This is Day 2 for me. The girl I was dating for 3 months, more like talking to because we met online and it was a LDR. Yeah, I know. Either way it still hurts. I got the it's not you it's me, you deserve someone better excuse.
Last night I deleted her off Discord and the online place where we met.
Here is what she wrote me,
"You’re a great guy and I like you and care about you a lot...I really do mean that. But as I reflect I feel there’s part of me that’s feeling I shouldn’t be worrying about relationships at all for a little while. I’m having some mental health struggles, and some that I haven’t told you about yet that makes me feel like I need to just take time and focus on addressing these issues. I feel like I can’t fully commit my heart and mind to any relationship right now and that’s not fair to you and I feel like I’m only able to give a shell of who I really am and you deserve better. There’s also some logistics of the future and how things would work out that make me scared to get too deep in. It’s nothing that you’ve done, you’re amazing. I just feel you deserve someone better and like I can’t really give you what you deserve"
I dodged a bullet. I have work to do with myself to get over the fear of meeting women locally. I need a good swift kick in the ass.
ever hear that saying that everything before the "but" in a sentence is nothing but BS.
When a chick drops the "you deserve better," on you, believe them. She just saved you a whole lot of hassle admitting she isnt mentally sound. Dude you dodged a bullet. You just don't know it yet.