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Just telling the inconvenient truth.
Its inconvenient to the relevance of your advice, which is zero. Spamming OLD might work in NYC, where you live, but it doesnt work elsewhere for most men. When's the last time you cold approached or generated a social circle?
 

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Its inconvenient to the relevance of your advice, which is zero. Spamming OLD might work in NYC, where you live, but it doesnt work elsewhere for most men. When's the last time you cold approached or generated a social circle?
Don't live in NYC. I would never live in NYC or anywhere near it
 

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The race is more to hint at a certain type of guy.

Chad is the handsome white guy. Tyrone the handsome black guy. All other races will be one of these two, depending upon their character. A " rough" handsome latino( Escobar's son) will be a Tyrone. A educated handsome latino will be Chad. Same for Asian Arab ect.
Agree.

No need to over-complicate things based on race.

All races have Chad and Tyrone and beta losers, with the same attributes/qualities, no matter the color of their skin or their DNA.
 

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So does Roman eat ramen with his roommates watching reruns like rodents?
 

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Let's say we have Roman, he graduated from college with a degree in electrical engineering and he works at some company like Raytheon. Roman is in a male dominated career that he makes good money at and overall does well for himself. Roman takes care of himself, maybe he likes hiking or goes to the gym or likes to play pickup basketball games.
So does Roman eat ramen with his roommates watching reruns like rodents?
If Roman isn't someone who roams around, what about "Norman" for a guy who is fairly normal?

To what extent does Norman/Roman ask for help from friends and family? He knows too few women, but a few degrees of separation may be a different story. An extended social network, if you will.
 

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If Roman isn't someone who roams around, what about "Norman" for a guy who is fairly normal?

To what extent does Norman/Roman ask for help from friends and family? He knows too few women, but a few degrees of separation may be a different story. An extended social network, if you will.
Well ,Roman should always be asking people around him to hook him up. Especially occupied women love to play match maker. Imo the only thing they'll want to see is Roman song wht he can and tries everything to find women. He must have a story every now and then. Similar like the woman whose a hopeless Romantic (slvt).

Let the wife's , gf's aunts and nieces be your "bff". Feed them stories and they'll happily help you out.
 

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Roman is too cool of a name for a dweeb like Roman. Can we rename him Norman? It's like normal, normal man, a plain mofo. Roman sounds like he's a leather jacket and neck tattoo away from being a Chad.
 

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Roman is too cool of a name for a dweeb like Roman. Can we rename him Norman? It's like normal, normal man, a plain mofo. Roman sounds like he's a leather jacket and neck tattoo away from being a Chad.
I agree Roman is too much a Chad name for someone like Roman to bear.
 

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I agree Roman is too much a Chad name for someone like Roman to bear.
I only know two romans in real life. One was a fat middle aged gay man who was a retired personal chef and the other a drug dealer who ended up behinds bars. Roman is a toss up name lol
 

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Norman is definitely a name for a dweeb or at best an AFC.
 

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I just liked that "Normal" is one letter away from "normal", making it easier to remember the connection.

@Gamisch How does Norman / Roman differ from the Average Frustrated Chump (AFC)?
 

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I agree that Norman is a better name. It does however sounds like Normandy, a place in France taken over by some bad ass Vikings.

I believe the difference between a Norman and a AFC is the interpretation of the problem . Norman isn't a woman hater (yet). A Roman (Norman) type of guy isn't necessarily insecure about himself. Nor does he feels like he has striking obvious flaws..he "just hasn't met the right one " , untill he starts to realize his daily routine doesn't increase the chance he will meet that right one eventually.

The afc is a straight up sucker for love. He tried everything. Paid sessions withbdating coaches, geomaxxx, leading with the wallet ect. Nothing works the AFC creates a unhealthy amount of resentment towards women and blames them for everything that went wrong.

Roman is bluepilled, but the AFC is blackpilled. Only after Roman actually tries and constantly fails he might become a AFC.
 
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