NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
Keep it simple. Bump.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The New and Of Course Improved... High School Bible
- Thread starter Lorenzo
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
Bump!
KinoOI
Master Don Juan
Let see some more posts I can thow in here, boys!
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The Performer
Anthony
AIM: KinoOI
E-mail: [email protected]
THE ROAD NOT TAKEN by Robert Frost
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I-
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
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The Performer
Anthony
AIM: KinoOI
E-mail: [email protected]
THE ROAD NOT TAKEN by Robert Frost
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I-
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
whatsupwiddat
Master Don Juan
YOU DIED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
Do you know what I just realized? It's been a year since this was posted. Let me just say this: Thanks for compiling this, it has helped me and a whole lotta AFCs start out in the beautiful world of Don Juaning. (Heh, that would make a good verb, to Don Juan).
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The Antichrist_Star
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Hey guys... Lorenzo asked me to start updating the Bible for now, so... if there are any posts that you recommend I put in the Bible, most of you know where to find me... so let's see some good material guys!
Reloaded: The Series... So to Speak, coming soon.
Reloaded: The Series... So to Speak, coming soon.
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/002323.html
that's gold.
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"Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to take away."
-Antoine de Saint-Exupery
"Everybody sees what you appear to be, few feel what you are,"
-Machiavelli
that's gold.
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"Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to take away."
-Antoine de Saint-Exupery
"Everybody sees what you appear to be, few feel what you are,"
-Machiavelli
whatsupwiddat
Master Don Juan
I'm the hired hand, and I'm available on AIM more often than Matrix, feel free to run these posts by me as well, and I'll tell Matrix about them. My AIM name is in my signature, so you can tell me.
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WhatsupwiddaT - Master Don Juan
AIM: HangTen3000, HangTenHarrier
Burn Baby Burn
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then tell him about that post up there it's a must read.
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"Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to take away."
-Antoine de Saint-Exupery
"Everybody sees what you appear to be, few feel what you are,"
-Machiavelli
whatsupwiddat
Master Don Juan
oops double.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
whatsupwiddat
Master Don Juan
Done
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WhatsupwiddaT - Master Don Juan
AIM: HangTen3000, HangTenHarrier
Burn Baby Burn
\/\/ \_/ \/\/ |_)
yayOriginally posted by whatsupwiddat:
DoneMatrix will add it ASAP.
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"Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to take away."
-Antoine de Saint-Exupery
"Everybody sees what you appear to be, few feel what you are,"
-Machiavelli
The Antichrist_Star
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Hey guys... added a new post "Scottish Charm" it's a good one so, check it out!
hey guys i was just looking at the old DJ Bible (http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000512.html) and i noticed the format is a lot easier to read than this is, it has less text in between and i think it would be better if the HSDJB was formatted this way too.
just a suggestion.
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"Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to take away."
-Antoine de Saint-Exupery
"Everybody sees what you appear to be, few feel what you are,"
-Machiavelli
just a suggestion.
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"Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to take away."
-Antoine de Saint-Exupery
"Everybody sees what you appear to be, few feel what you are,"
-Machiavelli
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
Madskater does have a point....
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
whatsupwiddat
Master Don Juan
I suggested this to Matrix about 2 weeks back, i think the same thing as well...
Also, testing new sig.
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Whatsupwiddat - Master Don Juan
AIM: HangTen3000
W.u.w.d.Nothing less than the best.
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Big Pimpin'
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bump
whatsupwiddat
Master Don Juan
Matrix isnt online WAY ENOUGH. But I like the new formatting. here is an idea though: how about the glossary is a post instead of being on it? Or if thats not a good idea, maybe the glossary shouldnt look like a paragraph mixed with regular and italic font strewn out randomly.
Two.Six.Six.
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Two.Six.Six.
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if the glossary was a post it would have to be constantly bumped, and it's at the very bottom so i dunno.Originally posted by whatsupwiddat:
Matrix isnt online WAY ENOUGH. But I like the new formatting. here is an idea though: how about the glossary is a post instead of being on it? Or if thats not a good idea, maybe the glossary shouldnt look like a paragraph mixed with regular and italic font strewn out randomly.
Two.Six.Six.
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matrix where are you???
two more ideas, 1) put the copyright thing at the bottom, and 2) make an index or table of contents to put all the summary stuff in.
just throwing ideas out let me know what you think.
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"Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to take away."
-Antoine de Saint-Exupery
"Everybody sees what you appear to be, few feel what you are,"
-Machiavelli
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.