Okay, well as I've posted before, I've been getting with this girl for about 4 weeks now. I've fvcked her only ONCE...yea I know WTF...but anyways...not this weekend but NEXT weekend she is going to arizona (were in Indiana) to see her so called "EX" boyfriend. Now I'm 100% planning on getting with other girls while she is gone btu I wantd to know how to handle the situation...should I talk to her about it? Or should I just let her go and see how she handles it? What do you guys think...I've never been in a situation like this before.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The girl is going to see her BOYFRIEND?!
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
nono i was thinkin about just being really nice pretending like shes not even leaving and then when she leaves i'm going to get with as many girls as possible...pretty much HOAR myself lol...then when she gets back jsut argue with her about it or some **** (hopefully she will bring it up)
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
Yeah, I agree. If you're worried that she's gonna go and sleep around with other guys, you probably shouldn't be doing the same to her...Vincent said:You have problems.
But, if you don't really care about your relationship with this girl, I guess you might as well go for it.
How do I have problems? This girl is going to go see her EX BOYFRIEND, who she is planning on having sex with plenty of times, I know this arleady. We ARE NOT EXCLUSIVE, never were. So therefore its fine if I get with other girls, now she will still get angry btu she relaly has no rigth to.
I think he and this girl both do.Vincent said:You have problems.
they've been sharing a bed for an entire month, they might as well be in a complete relationship and she's making plans to go F her ex boyfriend while he's making plans to go F random other girls.
then stop sharing a bed with her. unless the cuddling is really that good.toddC said:We ARE NOT EXCLUSIVE, never were.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
your whole little "i'm jealous so i'm going to make her jealous" scheme wont work.
girls are good, they may not seem smart, btu she'll fvck you three ways to friday if you piss her off.
You having sex with others wont show your devotion to the relationship, infact if she comes back and hears ehr FB fvcked other girls, SHE'LL NEXT YOU.
get your game together, either get exclusive with this girl, or stop getting used.
girls are good, they may not seem smart, btu she'll fvck you three ways to friday if you piss her off.
You having sex with others wont show your devotion to the relationship, infact if she comes back and hears ehr FB fvcked other girls, SHE'LL NEXT YOU.
get your game together, either get exclusive with this girl, or stop getting used.
You're not exclusive, so stop being a jealous little boy.toddC said:How do I have problems? This girl is going to go see her EX BOYFRIEND, who she is planning on having sex with plenty of times, I know this arleady. We ARE NOT EXCLUSIVE, never were. So therefore its fine if I get with other girls, now she will still get angry btu she relaly has no rigth to.
Anyway, as it has been said, she is going to sleep with him, you are going to sleep with other girls. If you whine about what she's doing, take a look in the mirror.
You don't have the right to object. You are not her boyfriend. No complaining, no whining, you're not allowed to.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.