"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The girl is going to see her BOYFRIEND?!

toddC

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Okay, well as I've posted before, I've been getting with this girl for about 4 weeks now. I've fvcked her only ONCE...yea I know WTF...but anyways...not this weekend but NEXT weekend she is going to arizona (were in Indiana) to see her so called "EX" boyfriend. Now I'm 100% planning on getting with other girls while she is gone btu I wantd to know how to handle the situation...should I talk to her about it? Or should I just let her go and see how she handles it? What do you guys think...I've never been in a situation like this before.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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eminence

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Double standards.
 

Vincent

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She's not your girlfriend, you're not her boyfriend. You're holding double standards saying it's fine for you to do something and she isn't.
 

toddC

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nono i was thinkin about just being really nice pretending like shes not even leaving and then when she leaves i'm going to get with as many girls as possible...pretty much HOAR myself lol...then when she gets back jsut argue with her about it or some **** (hopefully she will bring it up)
 

Vincent

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You have problems.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mr_rogers

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Vincent said:
You have problems.
Yeah, I agree. If you're worried that she's gonna go and sleep around with other guys, you probably shouldn't be doing the same to her...

But, if you don't really care about your relationship with this girl, I guess you might as well go for it.
 

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How do I have problems? This girl is going to go see her EX BOYFRIEND, who she is planning on having sex with plenty of times, I know this arleady. We ARE NOT EXCLUSIVE, never were. So therefore its fine if I get with other girls, now she will still get angry btu she relaly has no rigth to.
 

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Vincent said:
You have problems.
I think he and this girl both do.

they've been sharing a bed for an entire month, they might as well be in a complete relationship and she's making plans to go F her ex boyfriend while he's making plans to go F random other girls.

toddC said:
We ARE NOT EXCLUSIVE, never were.
then stop sharing a bed with her. unless the cuddling is really that good.
 

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your whole little "i'm jealous so i'm going to make her jealous" scheme wont work.
girls are good, they may not seem smart, btu she'll fvck you three ways to friday if you piss her off.
You having sex with others wont show your devotion to the relationship, infact if she comes back and hears ehr FB fvcked other girls, SHE'LL NEXT YOU.
get your game together, either get exclusive with this girl, or stop getting used.
 

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toddC said:
How do I have problems? This girl is going to go see her EX BOYFRIEND, who she is planning on having sex with plenty of times, I know this arleady. We ARE NOT EXCLUSIVE, never were. So therefore its fine if I get with other girls, now she will still get angry btu she relaly has no rigth to.
You're not exclusive, so stop being a jealous little boy.

Anyway, as it has been said, she is going to sleep with him, you are going to sleep with other girls. If you whine about what she's doing, take a look in the mirror.

You don't have the right to object. You are not her boyfriend. No complaining, no whining, you're not allowed to.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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