BelleSing94
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Haha I find this thread reeeeeally interesting!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Espi is a girl?Espi said:Atom Smasher: you're one of the guys who's apparently too afraid to post up what he really looks like...that's pretty lame as well--in my opinion.
Elbows too pointy.Epimanes said:Haha I will join this. Here is me.I got nothin to hide here. I'm 6' 1" and 195lbs
http://tinypic.com/r/350syub/4
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Congrats on your LT marriage.Epimanes said:Haha I have to have those on. I am at work.I took my sgirt off so I didn't have my company name I work for on display. One is a leatherman the other is my blackberry case. I don't need to worry about the fairer sex as I have been married to my high school sweet heart for 15 years and with her since I was 16.
Yes I need to bulk up. But wouldn't I want to cut a bit first? I probably got a 15% body fat currently. As for bulkin what's the best approach? I do a workout routine (fell off the routine about 8 weeks ago bcuz I got sick and family crap took over life) but things are getting back on track and summer is here so I wana bulk up get on routine again and cut my bodt fat down a bit more. I was down to 185 before I got sick and lost motivation for my routine.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Nice gainnnzzzzzzzzzzzz.-Gripz- said:Alright, well here's my ugly mug. Better hurry and click on it before I delete!
Here's another just for the hell of it. No homo.... Took this for progress tracking.
Thanks; got alot to work on though. Also please edit that quote out! Gotta stay anonymous! :rock:cordoncordon said:Nice gainnnzzzzzzzzzzzz.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Challenge accepted!OC Speedball said:The reason no one is posting their pics is because they aren't as good looking as they claim to be. When users see a below average looking guy, or a chubby neckbeard guy, then they will lose credibility in all their posts where they claim to be banging 7's and above.
OC Speedball said:The reason no one is posting their pics is because they aren't as good looking as they claim to be. When users see a below average looking guy, or a chubby neckbeard guy, then they will lose credibility in all their posts where they claim to be banging 7's and above.
No homo - you are good looking dude. You should have no problem getting a lot of women if you got half-way decent game.OC Speedball said:The reason no one is posting their pics is because they aren't as good looking as they claim to be. When users see a below average looking guy, or a chubby neckbeard guy, then they will lose credibility in all their posts where they claim to be banging 7's and above.
Just so I'm not a hypocrite, here are pics of myself:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v323/mattstank/photo.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v323/mattstank/ocfair_8_12_2012.jpg
Looking swooolllllllllll! Nice gainz.Fuglydude said:I've posted my pics many times.
So here ya go again...me and my wife.
http://s102.photobucket.com/albums/m91/Treydesmon/
Cordon, looking good as usual mang... How's that hot little Asian gf of yours?![]()
OC Speedball said:The reason no one is posting their pics is because they aren't as good looking as they claim to be. When users see a below average looking guy, or a chubby neckbeard guy, then they will lose credibility in all their posts where they claim to be banging 7's and above.
Just so I'm not a hypocrite, here are pics of myself:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v323/mattstank/photo.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v323/mattstank/ocfair_8_12_2012.jpg
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.