BelleSing94
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Haha I find this thread reeeeeally interesting!
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Espi is a girl?Espi said:Atom Smasher: you're one of the guys who's apparently too afraid to post up what he really looks like...that's pretty lame as well--in my opinion.
Elbows too pointy.Epimanes said:Haha I will join this. Here is me.I got nothin to hide here. I'm 6' 1" and 195lbs
http://tinypic.com/r/350syub/4
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Congrats on your LT marriage.Epimanes said:Haha I have to have those on. I am at work.I took my sgirt off so I didn't have my company name I work for on display. One is a leatherman the other is my blackberry case. I don't need to worry about the fairer sex as I have been married to my high school sweet heart for 15 years and with her since I was 16.
Yes I need to bulk up. But wouldn't I want to cut a bit first? I probably got a 15% body fat currently. As for bulkin what's the best approach? I do a workout routine (fell off the routine about 8 weeks ago bcuz I got sick and family crap took over life) but things are getting back on track and summer is here so I wana bulk up get on routine again and cut my bodt fat down a bit more. I was down to 185 before I got sick and lost motivation for my routine.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Nice gainnnzzzzzzzzzzzz.-Gripz- said:Alright, well here's my ugly mug. Better hurry and click on it before I delete!
Here's another just for the hell of it. No homo.... Took this for progress tracking.
Thanks; got alot to work on though. Also please edit that quote out! Gotta stay anonymous! :rock:cordoncordon said:Nice gainnnzzzzzzzzzzzz.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Challenge accepted!OC Speedball said:The reason no one is posting their pics is because they aren't as good looking as they claim to be. When users see a below average looking guy, or a chubby neckbeard guy, then they will lose credibility in all their posts where they claim to be banging 7's and above.
OC Speedball said:The reason no one is posting their pics is because they aren't as good looking as they claim to be. When users see a below average looking guy, or a chubby neckbeard guy, then they will lose credibility in all their posts where they claim to be banging 7's and above.
No homo - you are good looking dude. You should have no problem getting a lot of women if you got half-way decent game.OC Speedball said:The reason no one is posting their pics is because they aren't as good looking as they claim to be. When users see a below average looking guy, or a chubby neckbeard guy, then they will lose credibility in all their posts where they claim to be banging 7's and above.
Just so I'm not a hypocrite, here are pics of myself:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v323/mattstank/photo.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v323/mattstank/ocfair_8_12_2012.jpg
Looking swooolllllllllll! Nice gainz.Fuglydude said:I've posted my pics many times.
So here ya go again...me and my wife.
http://s102.photobucket.com/albums/m91/Treydesmon/
Cordon, looking good as usual mang... How's that hot little Asian gf of yours?![]()
OC Speedball said:The reason no one is posting their pics is because they aren't as good looking as they claim to be. When users see a below average looking guy, or a chubby neckbeard guy, then they will lose credibility in all their posts where they claim to be banging 7's and above.
Just so I'm not a hypocrite, here are pics of myself:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v323/mattstank/photo.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v323/mattstank/ocfair_8_12_2012.jpg
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.