BelleSing94
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Haha I find this thread reeeeeally interesting!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Espi is a girl?Espi said:Atom Smasher: you're one of the guys who's apparently too afraid to post up what he really looks like...that's pretty lame as well--in my opinion.
Elbows too pointy.Epimanes said:Haha I will join this. Here is me.I got nothin to hide here. I'm 6' 1" and 195lbs
http://tinypic.com/r/350syub/4
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Congrats on your LT marriage.Epimanes said:Haha I have to have those on. I am at work.I took my sgirt off so I didn't have my company name I work for on display. One is a leatherman the other is my blackberry case. I don't need to worry about the fairer sex as I have been married to my high school sweet heart for 15 years and with her since I was 16.
Yes I need to bulk up. But wouldn't I want to cut a bit first? I probably got a 15% body fat currently. As for bulkin what's the best approach? I do a workout routine (fell off the routine about 8 weeks ago bcuz I got sick and family crap took over life) but things are getting back on track and summer is here so I wana bulk up get on routine again and cut my bodt fat down a bit more. I was down to 185 before I got sick and lost motivation for my routine.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Nice gainnnzzzzzzzzzzzz.-Gripz- said:Alright, well here's my ugly mug. Better hurry and click on it before I delete!
Here's another just for the hell of it. No homo.... Took this for progress tracking.
Thanks; got alot to work on though. Also please edit that quote out! Gotta stay anonymous! :rock:cordoncordon said:Nice gainnnzzzzzzzzzzzz.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Challenge accepted!OC Speedball said:The reason no one is posting their pics is because they aren't as good looking as they claim to be. When users see a below average looking guy, or a chubby neckbeard guy, then they will lose credibility in all their posts where they claim to be banging 7's and above.
OC Speedball said:The reason no one is posting their pics is because they aren't as good looking as they claim to be. When users see a below average looking guy, or a chubby neckbeard guy, then they will lose credibility in all their posts where they claim to be banging 7's and above.
No homo - you are good looking dude. You should have no problem getting a lot of women if you got half-way decent game.OC Speedball said:The reason no one is posting their pics is because they aren't as good looking as they claim to be. When users see a below average looking guy, or a chubby neckbeard guy, then they will lose credibility in all their posts where they claim to be banging 7's and above.
Just so I'm not a hypocrite, here are pics of myself:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v323/mattstank/photo.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v323/mattstank/ocfair_8_12_2012.jpg
Looking swooolllllllllll! Nice gainz.Fuglydude said:I've posted my pics many times.
So here ya go again...me and my wife.
http://s102.photobucket.com/albums/m91/Treydesmon/
Cordon, looking good as usual mang... How's that hot little Asian gf of yours?![]()
OC Speedball said:The reason no one is posting their pics is because they aren't as good looking as they claim to be. When users see a below average looking guy, or a chubby neckbeard guy, then they will lose credibility in all their posts where they claim to be banging 7's and above.
Just so I'm not a hypocrite, here are pics of myself:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v323/mattstank/photo.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v323/mattstank/ocfair_8_12_2012.jpg
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.