Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
Whats the difference between being:
Sexual and Comfortable with it
&
coming off as Sexually Needy
Sexual and Comfortable with it
&
coming off as Sexually Needy
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
-- The Difference Is... --
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
...haha nice but...
i wanted to know in a view point how does some one who act sexual and comfortable differ from someone is is coming off as sexual needy.
(examples of the way they act)
i wanted to know in a view point how does some one who act sexual and comfortable differ from someone is is coming off as sexual needy.
(examples of the way they act)
Imagine the ideal image of a DJ... just kicking it.
Strong, powerful, sexually alluring, relaxed... literally overflowing.
Open big body language.
Direct EC (and comftorable expressing sexuality in his gaze).
Moves slow.
Comftorable in his skin.
You can imagine the opposite of such a person... as the "sexually needy."
Avoids sexual EC. Or... looks rabid for it, in desperate lust.
Leaning forward. Fidgety. Awkwardly uncomftorable.
Like a ghoul. Charged w. hunger. Seeking, rather than attracting.
One will be magnetic from there overflowing healthy integrated sexual state.
The other will be a festering desperate ghoul, hungry from his lack. (or non integrated state)
Hope that clarifies. If not, reprhase.
Peace'
Strong, powerful, sexually alluring, relaxed... literally overflowing.
Open big body language.
Direct EC (and comftorable expressing sexuality in his gaze).
Moves slow.
Comftorable in his skin.
You can imagine the opposite of such a person... as the "sexually needy."
Avoids sexual EC. Or... looks rabid for it, in desperate lust.
Leaning forward. Fidgety. Awkwardly uncomftorable.
Like a ghoul. Charged w. hunger. Seeking, rather than attracting.
One will be magnetic from there overflowing healthy integrated sexual state.
The other will be a festering desperate ghoul, hungry from his lack. (or non integrated state)
Hope that clarifies. If not, reprhase.
Peace'
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
Ahhh got it !
tanx.
"Seeking, rather than attracting."
tanx.
"Seeking, rather than attracting."
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