Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
Whats the difference between being:
Sexual and Comfortable with it
&
coming off as Sexually Needy
Sexual and Comfortable with it
&
coming off as Sexually Needy
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
-- The Difference Is... --
- Thread starter Charm&Style
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
...haha nice but...
i wanted to know in a view point how does some one who act sexual and comfortable differ from someone is is coming off as sexual needy.
(examples of the way they act)
i wanted to know in a view point how does some one who act sexual and comfortable differ from someone is is coming off as sexual needy.
(examples of the way they act)
Imagine the ideal image of a DJ... just kicking it.
Strong, powerful, sexually alluring, relaxed... literally overflowing.
Open big body language.
Direct EC (and comftorable expressing sexuality in his gaze).
Moves slow.
Comftorable in his skin.
You can imagine the opposite of such a person... as the "sexually needy."
Avoids sexual EC. Or... looks rabid for it, in desperate lust.
Leaning forward. Fidgety. Awkwardly uncomftorable.
Like a ghoul. Charged w. hunger. Seeking, rather than attracting.
One will be magnetic from there overflowing healthy integrated sexual state.
The other will be a festering desperate ghoul, hungry from his lack. (or non integrated state)
Hope that clarifies. If not, reprhase.
Peace'
Strong, powerful, sexually alluring, relaxed... literally overflowing.
Open big body language.
Direct EC (and comftorable expressing sexuality in his gaze).
Moves slow.
Comftorable in his skin.
You can imagine the opposite of such a person... as the "sexually needy."
Avoids sexual EC. Or... looks rabid for it, in desperate lust.
Leaning forward. Fidgety. Awkwardly uncomftorable.
Like a ghoul. Charged w. hunger. Seeking, rather than attracting.
One will be magnetic from there overflowing healthy integrated sexual state.
The other will be a festering desperate ghoul, hungry from his lack. (or non integrated state)
Hope that clarifies. If not, reprhase.
Peace'
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
Ahhh got it !
tanx.
"Seeking, rather than attracting."
tanx.
"Seeking, rather than attracting."
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.