Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
Whats the difference between being:
Sexual and Comfortable with it
&
coming off as Sexually Needy
Sexual and Comfortable with it
&
coming off as Sexually Needy
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
-- The Difference Is... --
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
...haha nice but...
i wanted to know in a view point how does some one who act sexual and comfortable differ from someone is is coming off as sexual needy.
(examples of the way they act)
i wanted to know in a view point how does some one who act sexual and comfortable differ from someone is is coming off as sexual needy.
(examples of the way they act)
Imagine the ideal image of a DJ... just kicking it.
Strong, powerful, sexually alluring, relaxed... literally overflowing.
Open big body language.
Direct EC (and comftorable expressing sexuality in his gaze).
Moves slow.
Comftorable in his skin.
You can imagine the opposite of such a person... as the "sexually needy."
Avoids sexual EC. Or... looks rabid for it, in desperate lust.
Leaning forward. Fidgety. Awkwardly uncomftorable.
Like a ghoul. Charged w. hunger. Seeking, rather than attracting.
One will be magnetic from there overflowing healthy integrated sexual state.
The other will be a festering desperate ghoul, hungry from his lack. (or non integrated state)
Hope that clarifies. If not, reprhase.
Peace'
Strong, powerful, sexually alluring, relaxed... literally overflowing.
Open big body language.
Direct EC (and comftorable expressing sexuality in his gaze).
Moves slow.
Comftorable in his skin.
You can imagine the opposite of such a person... as the "sexually needy."
Avoids sexual EC. Or... looks rabid for it, in desperate lust.
Leaning forward. Fidgety. Awkwardly uncomftorable.
Like a ghoul. Charged w. hunger. Seeking, rather than attracting.
One will be magnetic from there overflowing healthy integrated sexual state.
The other will be a festering desperate ghoul, hungry from his lack. (or non integrated state)
Hope that clarifies. If not, reprhase.
Peace'
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
Ahhh got it !
tanx.
"Seeking, rather than attracting."
tanx.
"Seeking, rather than attracting."
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.