Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
Whats the difference between being:
Sexual and Comfortable with it
&
coming off as Sexually Needy
Sexual and Comfortable with it
&
coming off as Sexually Needy
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
-- The Difference Is... --
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
...haha nice but...
i wanted to know in a view point how does some one who act sexual and comfortable differ from someone is is coming off as sexual needy.
(examples of the way they act)
i wanted to know in a view point how does some one who act sexual and comfortable differ from someone is is coming off as sexual needy.
(examples of the way they act)
Imagine the ideal image of a DJ... just kicking it.
Strong, powerful, sexually alluring, relaxed... literally overflowing.
Open big body language.
Direct EC (and comftorable expressing sexuality in his gaze).
Moves slow.
Comftorable in his skin.
You can imagine the opposite of such a person... as the "sexually needy."
Avoids sexual EC. Or... looks rabid for it, in desperate lust.
Leaning forward. Fidgety. Awkwardly uncomftorable.
Like a ghoul. Charged w. hunger. Seeking, rather than attracting.
One will be magnetic from there overflowing healthy integrated sexual state.
The other will be a festering desperate ghoul, hungry from his lack. (or non integrated state)
Hope that clarifies. If not, reprhase.
Peace'
Strong, powerful, sexually alluring, relaxed... literally overflowing.
Open big body language.
Direct EC (and comftorable expressing sexuality in his gaze).
Moves slow.
Comftorable in his skin.
You can imagine the opposite of such a person... as the "sexually needy."
Avoids sexual EC. Or... looks rabid for it, in desperate lust.
Leaning forward. Fidgety. Awkwardly uncomftorable.
Like a ghoul. Charged w. hunger. Seeking, rather than attracting.
One will be magnetic from there overflowing healthy integrated sexual state.
The other will be a festering desperate ghoul, hungry from his lack. (or non integrated state)
Hope that clarifies. If not, reprhase.
Peace'
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
Ahhh got it !
tanx.
"Seeking, rather than attracting."
tanx.
"Seeking, rather than attracting."
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.