Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
Whats the difference between being:
Sexual and Comfortable with it
&
coming off as Sexually Needy
Sexual and Comfortable with it
&
coming off as Sexually Needy
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
-- The Difference Is... --
- Thread starter Charm&Style
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
...haha nice but...
i wanted to know in a view point how does some one who act sexual and comfortable differ from someone is is coming off as sexual needy.
(examples of the way they act)
i wanted to know in a view point how does some one who act sexual and comfortable differ from someone is is coming off as sexual needy.
(examples of the way they act)
Imagine the ideal image of a DJ... just kicking it.
Strong, powerful, sexually alluring, relaxed... literally overflowing.
Open big body language.
Direct EC (and comftorable expressing sexuality in his gaze).
Moves slow.
Comftorable in his skin.
You can imagine the opposite of such a person... as the "sexually needy."
Avoids sexual EC. Or... looks rabid for it, in desperate lust.
Leaning forward. Fidgety. Awkwardly uncomftorable.
Like a ghoul. Charged w. hunger. Seeking, rather than attracting.
One will be magnetic from there overflowing healthy integrated sexual state.
The other will be a festering desperate ghoul, hungry from his lack. (or non integrated state)
Hope that clarifies. If not, reprhase.
Peace'
Strong, powerful, sexually alluring, relaxed... literally overflowing.
Open big body language.
Direct EC (and comftorable expressing sexuality in his gaze).
Moves slow.
Comftorable in his skin.
You can imagine the opposite of such a person... as the "sexually needy."
Avoids sexual EC. Or... looks rabid for it, in desperate lust.
Leaning forward. Fidgety. Awkwardly uncomftorable.
Like a ghoul. Charged w. hunger. Seeking, rather than attracting.
One will be magnetic from there overflowing healthy integrated sexual state.
The other will be a festering desperate ghoul, hungry from his lack. (or non integrated state)
Hope that clarifies. If not, reprhase.
Peace'
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
Ahhh got it !
tanx.
"Seeking, rather than attracting."
tanx.
"Seeking, rather than attracting."
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.