"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I dont usually post on here for advice because from what ive learned on this site tells me to get off the computer and get involved in life.

When i first got to college I was a bum. But now Im at the end of my 3rd semester and its awesome. Last spring is when I really started being more outgoing and social than I was before. Now I can get the hottest girls on campus and Ive made alot of friends and met so many people i cant remember some names. I was always a good looking guy because I had good genes but I had to get of my A$$ and make something happen.

The point is that there are alot of guys on here either trying too hard to be something theyre not or just dont have a clue on how to act around and talk to women. I guess for some guys its a little harder than it was for me. We all make decisions in life and I had to say to myself do I want to be a loser and not ever have anything to do or anyone to hang out with besides other losers. Its your choice do you want to live your life to the fullest or let it pass you by?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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3rd semester in colllege, and you're still 18, huh.
 
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so what steps did u take to be more outgoing become socially sucessfull?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Joined the football team. Just make yourself talk to people. Go out when and where everybody goes. Dont stay in ur house and play video games go somewhere that people are always at. Most importantly be friendly.
 
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Good advice.

Always take offers to go out if/when you're not doing anything important or worthwhile. If it's between going out with 2 buddies to a party/club or playing Halo all alone, don't succumb to anti-social behavior by choosing the latter. I've been there, and it sucks.
 
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