The decision is yours

[NSUballer]

I dont usually post on here for advice because from what ive learned on this site tells me to get off the computer and get involved in life.

When i first got to college I was a bum. But now Im at the end of my 3rd semester and its awesome. Last spring is when I really started being more outgoing and social than I was before. Now I can get the hottest girls on campus and Ive made alot of friends and met so many people i cant remember some names. I was always a good looking guy because I had good genes but I had to get of my A$$ and make something happen.

The point is that there are alot of guys on here either trying too hard to be something theyre not or just dont have a clue on how to act around and talk to women. I guess for some guys its a little harder than it was for me. We all make decisions in life and I had to say to myself do I want to be a loser and not ever have anything to do or anyone to hang out with besides other losers. Its your choice do you want to live your life to the fullest or let it pass you by?

 

[NSUballer]

And I just smoked a joint so if u think this is retarded then thats the reason.

 

[AmIAFC]

3rd semester in colllege, and you're still 18, huh.

 

[NSUballer]

actually im 19

 

[C00L]

so what steps did u take to be more outgoing become socially sucessfull?

 

[NSUballer]

Joined the football team. Just make yourself talk to people. Go out when and where everybody goes. Dont stay in ur house and play video games go somewhere that people are always at. Most importantly be friendly.

 

[AmIAFC]

Good advice.

Always take offers to go out if/when you're not doing anything important or worthwhile. If it's between going out with 2 buddies to a party/club or playing Halo all alone, don't succumb to anti-social behavior by choosing the latter. I've been there, and it sucks.