"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I dont usually post on here for advice because from what ive learned on this site tells me to get off the computer and get involved in life.

When i first got to college I was a bum. But now Im at the end of my 3rd semester and its awesome. Last spring is when I really started being more outgoing and social than I was before. Now I can get the hottest girls on campus and Ive made alot of friends and met so many people i cant remember some names. I was always a good looking guy because I had good genes but I had to get of my A$$ and make something happen.

The point is that there are alot of guys on here either trying too hard to be something theyre not or just dont have a clue on how to act around and talk to women. I guess for some guys its a little harder than it was for me. We all make decisions in life and I had to say to myself do I want to be a loser and not ever have anything to do or anyone to hang out with besides other losers. Its your choice do you want to live your life to the fullest or let it pass you by?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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3rd semester in colllege, and you're still 18, huh.
 
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so what steps did u take to be more outgoing become socially sucessfull?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Joined the football team. Just make yourself talk to people. Go out when and where everybody goes. Dont stay in ur house and play video games go somewhere that people are always at. Most importantly be friendly.
 
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Good advice.

Always take offers to go out if/when you're not doing anything important or worthwhile. If it's between going out with 2 buddies to a party/club or playing Halo all alone, don't succumb to anti-social behavior by choosing the latter. I've been there, and it sucks.
 
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