"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NSUballer

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I dont usually post on here for advice because from what ive learned on this site tells me to get off the computer and get involved in life.

When i first got to college I was a bum. But now Im at the end of my 3rd semester and its awesome. Last spring is when I really started being more outgoing and social than I was before. Now I can get the hottest girls on campus and Ive made alot of friends and met so many people i cant remember some names. I was always a good looking guy because I had good genes but I had to get of my A$$ and make something happen.

The point is that there are alot of guys on here either trying too hard to be something theyre not or just dont have a clue on how to act around and talk to women. I guess for some guys its a little harder than it was for me. We all make decisions in life and I had to say to myself do I want to be a loser and not ever have anything to do or anyone to hang out with besides other losers. Its your choice do you want to live your life to the fullest or let it pass you by?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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3rd semester in colllege, and you're still 18, huh.
 

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so what steps did u take to be more outgoing become socially sucessfull?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Joined the football team. Just make yourself talk to people. Go out when and where everybody goes. Dont stay in ur house and play video games go somewhere that people are always at. Most importantly be friendly.
 

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Good advice.

Always take offers to go out if/when you're not doing anything important or worthwhile. If it's between going out with 2 buddies to a party/club or playing Halo all alone, don't succumb to anti-social behavior by choosing the latter. I've been there, and it sucks.
 
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