"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I dont usually post on here for advice because from what ive learned on this site tells me to get off the computer and get involved in life.

When i first got to college I was a bum. But now Im at the end of my 3rd semester and its awesome. Last spring is when I really started being more outgoing and social than I was before. Now I can get the hottest girls on campus and Ive made alot of friends and met so many people i cant remember some names. I was always a good looking guy because I had good genes but I had to get of my A$$ and make something happen.

The point is that there are alot of guys on here either trying too hard to be something theyre not or just dont have a clue on how to act around and talk to women. I guess for some guys its a little harder than it was for me. We all make decisions in life and I had to say to myself do I want to be a loser and not ever have anything to do or anyone to hang out with besides other losers. Its your choice do you want to live your life to the fullest or let it pass you by?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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3rd semester in colllege, and you're still 18, huh.
 
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so what steps did u take to be more outgoing become socially sucessfull?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Joined the football team. Just make yourself talk to people. Go out when and where everybody goes. Dont stay in ur house and play video games go somewhere that people are always at. Most importantly be friendly.
 
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Good advice.

Always take offers to go out if/when you're not doing anything important or worthwhile. If it's between going out with 2 buddies to a party/club or playing Halo all alone, don't succumb to anti-social behavior by choosing the latter. I've been there, and it sucks.
 
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