"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Beta Male Anthem!

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Does anyone know how to remove vomit from a monitor?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's not surprising that this song came out in 1999 and was popular in 1999-2001. The oldest Millennials were about to finish high school. This sort of captured the feelings of the early Millennials who were in high school in the 1999-2001 era. Then we wonder why Millennials turned out so messed up.
 

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lol this song came out in the late 90’s when I was in Middle School.

It’s a pretty catchy song, they just need to tweak the lyrics a little bit.
This is why I prefer instrumental music over songs.

Songs usually try to have a point. Music itself has no meaning other than being catchy.
 

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88-92 was not much better. Alot of masculine rock 80-85 but it went south quick lol
I would say that the music of 1988-1992 contained less beta lyrics and feel than the music of 1998-2002.

1988-1992 had too many power ballads, which are too beta. 1988 had Cinderella's "Dont Know What You Got" and Poison's "Every Rose Has Its Thorn". "Every Rose" was written about some stripper and Bret Michaels found out some stripper was cheating on him. In fairness to the stripper, the incident happened in 1986 when Poison was touring to support their first record and they weren't super big and super rich yet. However, a band with a recording contract with a major label in 1986 needs abundance mentality. I could argue that the song was written to appeal to beta males though.

1989 did have Dr. Feelgood (written about a drug dealer, not beta) from Motley Crue.

All the Seattle grunge bands that got popular in 1991-1992 were betas. Kurt Cobain was a weak man who killed himself.

Popular music has gotten too wussified since the 1960s/1970s though.
 

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Funnily enough this guy's own dad was a well-known hard rocker


The "Overdrive" in Bachman Turner Overdrive refers to being balls-out. Tal, the son, seems to be driving a Prius.

You'd figure this guy grew up being able to get trim as a chad/chadlite, from a well-off family and the son of a celebrity who's a solid, masculine dude. Yet his mark on the world is an ode to pedestalization, which is a little odd.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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They're from my home city! Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada!
Winnipeg has a nice music tradition (BTO, Guess Who, Neil Young). I've heard the women are nice there too with a nice dose of Scandinavian genes
 

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Winnipeg has a nice music tradition (BTO, Guess Who, Neil Young). I've heard the women are nice there too with a nice dose of Scandinavian genes
They're known for being super hot, actually. A chick with a great rack was checking me out and giving me IOIs a while back too; but I'm currently poor, so I didn't make a move. :( Gotta get the finances in order first, before I think of it.
 

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They're known for being super hot, actually. A chick with a great rack was checking me out and giving me IOIs a while back too; but I'm currently poor, so I didn't make a move. :( Gotta get the finances in order first, before I think of it.
Nice. Where I live in the US (Arizona) there are a lot of transplants from the upper midwest (many from Minnesota) who are Scandinavian descended, and I've heard the same about Thunder Bay, so I figured that might be the case there in Winnipeg too.
 

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This song is not only a Beta Male anthem, it's an Alpha Female anthem too (just dropped yesterday in fact):


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It’s a pretty catchy song, they just need to tweak the lyrics a little bit.
Done.
 
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Good choice for Beta Male Anthem. Those lyrics have always made me cringe.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I would say that the music of 1988-1992 contained less beta lyrics and feel than the music of 1998-2002.

1988-1992 had too many power ballads, which are too beta. 1988 had Cinderella's "Dont Know What You Got" and Poison's "Every Rose Has Its Thorn". "Every Rose" was written about some stripper and Bret Michaels found out some stripper was cheating on him. In fairness to the stripper, the incident happened in 1986 when Poison was touring to support their first record and they weren't super big and super rich yet. However, a band with a recording contract with a major label in 1986 needs abundance mentality. I could argue that the song was written to appeal to beta males though.

1989 did have Dr. Feelgood (written about a drug dealer, not beta) from Motley Crue.

All the Seattle grunge bands that got popular in 1991-1992 were betas. Kurt Cobain was a weak man who killed himself.

Popular music has gotten too wussified since the 1960s/1970s though.
Bro, "Every rose has its thorn" is a f*cking masterpiece. That guitar solo cuts through "like a knife".

I just listened to "Cinderella's "Dont Know What You Got" - and damn its a good song also. Thanks for the suggestion.
 

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Bro, "Every rose has its thorn" is a f*cking masterpiece. That guitar solo cuts through "like a knife".

I just listened to "Cinderella's "Dont Know What You Got" - and damn its a good song also. Thanks for the suggestion.
The songs sound pleasant but the messages in them are quite beta.
 

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The songs sound pleasant but the messages in them are quite beta.
I'm not a huge Poison fan, they're okay. The lyrics are on the beta side, I would agree. But the title Every Rose Has its Thorn is a true statement. I would say all love holds some measure of pain, and I'm not necessarily talking about romantic love either. For example, if you love your parents and they die, it's going to hurt. When you love someone or something, it makes you vulnerable.
 

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The songs sound pleasant but the messages in them are quite beta.
A lot of it's a sales pitch, these are perceived as macho and edgy dudes being soft for the women who've been hurt by "bad boys" in the past.

The cucks here are the guys bringing their girlfriends to these concerts just so they can fantasize about Bret Michaels, etc. They're not really fantasizing about the Tal Bachmans of the world though.
 

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Funnily enough this guy's own dad was a well-known hard rocker


The "Overdrive" in Bachman Turner Overdrive refers to being balls-out. Tal, the son, seems to be driving a Prius.

You'd figure this guy grew up being able to get trim as a chad/chadlite, from a well-off family and the son of a celebrity who's a solid, masculine dude. Yet his mark on the world is an ode to pedestalization, which is a little odd.
Yea, not exactly.

The band had already mulled over using their surnames (à la Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young). While on their way back from a gig in Toronto, the group had spotted a copy of a trucker's magazine called Overdrive while dining at the Colonial Steak House in Windsor, Ontario, run by Colonial Jim Lambros. After this, Turner wrote "Bachman–Turner Overdrive" and the initials "B.T.O." on a napkin. The rest of the band decided the addition of "Overdrive" was the perfect way to describe their music.

Source - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bachman–Turner_Overdrive

They're from Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada. Not exactly what I'd define as Chads or Alpha's. It's a song. Plan and simple.

These are the "Chads" of BTO.

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One is wearing a shirt with the name Banana and looks like Kermit... One looks like a feminized Kurt Russell. The other two look like Olaf.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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