Tenacity
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Pay him no mind El Payaso. Tenacity changes his mind every few weeks, usually following an episode. It's part of his BPD.In your previous posts, you were very anti-red pill. I wonder what caused the recent change of heart. A burning experience from a black single mom, I suppose.
I thought that was the other gender that did all the mind changing!Pay him no mind El Payaso. Tenacity changes his mind every few weeks, usually following an episode. It's part of his BPD.
Lol, I think those Poon King debates misled some guys. I have always been in support of the Red Pill, remember I authored these threads here:In your previous posts, you were very anti-red pill. I wonder what caused the recent change of heart. A burning experience from a black single mom, I suppose.
Lol, what a hater. This guy Guru/Legend/(Insert Probably Another Fake Account Here) his clearly madPay him no mind El Payaso. Tenacity changes his mind every few weeks, usually following an episode. It's part of his BPD.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Idk, where is LEGEND lol? Are you going to log in as Legend tonight and respond to your own postsI can see why you abhorred those roasting sessions with your "peers." You lack wit.
BTW, where is 9Volt?![]()
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
But bro I date black women.....which means they have no "Dad" lolThe only concerning issue is 7. Wedding costs are usually for by the bride's dad btw. The rest can be avoided by choosing the right woman and growing a fvcking pair of nuts. Just realized what the link was and everything made sense. The brobilbe is **** haha.
Uhhhhh.........9 Reasons Why You Should Not Get Married, According to a Married Guy
And what if you'd like to have children?The only reason to get married is if her/her family is rich or powerful
You don't need to get married to your partner in order to have a child and raise it together with her.And what if you'd like to have children?
Would you prefer them to grow up in a single parent household with you just paying child support? At some point, it isn't just about you anymore.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.