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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
wifehunter
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I don't recommend marriage for atheists. It's not the business for unbelievers, which is likely why, mainstream marriage is a failure.
Enjoy your casual sex. That's all it is, anyway.
Enjoy your casual sex. That's all it is, anyway.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Honestly I don't really care about any of these reasons except the no sexual fun part and the money part. She can nag all she wants, but if she ain't doing anything to sexually please me, then I'm out. And the sex with on every partner for the rest of your life thing isn't even a big deal. What is a big deal is that people end up having sex the same old way over and over again. If you do something different each time, it's like having sex with a different person imo. Something I noticed with chicks is that you gotta not be afraid to stare at other fine women. Then they feel the competition:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
"9 Reasons Why You Should Not Get Married, According to a Married Guy"
Then why is he MARRIED? I think he likes being married and telling others that he is married, but doesn't want other people to get married. So he throws out every excuse in the book to convince guys not to get married.
Brutal.
Then why is he MARRIED? I think he likes being married and telling others that he is married, but doesn't want other people to get married. So he throws out every excuse in the book to convince guys not to get married.
Brutal.
guru1000
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Pay him no mind El Payaso. Tenacity changes his mind every few weeks, usually following an episode. It's part of his BPD.
wifehunter
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I thought that was the other gender that did all the mind changing!
Tenacity
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Lol, I think those Poon King debates misled some guys. I have always been in support of the Red Pill, remember I authored these threads here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/women-are-lease-agreements-not-finance-agreements.226106/
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/todays-women-are-penny-stocks-not-blue-chip.225276/
Lol, what a hater. This guy Guru/Legend/(Insert Probably Another Fake Account Here) his clearly mad
.How in the hell can Guru make jokes about guys changing their mind, when he literally CHANGES his username every 2 or 3 months lol?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Tenacity
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Idk, where is LEGEND lol? Are you going to log in as Legend tonight and respond to your own postsI can see why you abhorred those roasting sessions with your "peers." You lack wit.
BTW, where is 9Volt?
?
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I'm not married. Sometimes I wish I could find someone. Then I realize that red pill just naturally weeds out bad marriage material. It's like natural selection, the weak just die off. Haven't found one worth keeping around yet. I still live my life thinking not all women are completely fos.
PeasantPlayer
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Marriage is unnatural
EyeBRollin
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I had this very thought today. Just being in an LTR feels like prison. Marriage sounds worse than torture. Solution? Cheat.
devilkingx2
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The only reason to get married is if her/her family is rich or powerful
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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The only concerning issue is 7. Wedding costs are usually for by the bride's dad btw. The rest can be avoided by choosing the right woman and growing a fvcking pair of nuts. Just realized what the link was and everything made sense. The brobilbe is **** haha.
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Tenacity
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But bro I date black women.....which means they have no "Dad" lol
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And what if you'd like to have children?
Would you prefer them to grow up in a single parent household with you just paying child support? At some point, it isn't just about you anymore.
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You don't need to get married to your partner in order to have a child and raise it together with her.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.