Tenacity
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Pay him no mind El Payaso. Tenacity changes his mind every few weeks, usually following an episode. It's part of his BPD.In your previous posts, you were very anti-red pill. I wonder what caused the recent change of heart. A burning experience from a black single mom, I suppose.
I thought that was the other gender that did all the mind changing!Pay him no mind El Payaso. Tenacity changes his mind every few weeks, usually following an episode. It's part of his BPD.
Lol, I think those Poon King debates misled some guys. I have always been in support of the Red Pill, remember I authored these threads here:In your previous posts, you were very anti-red pill. I wonder what caused the recent change of heart. A burning experience from a black single mom, I suppose.
Lol, what a hater. This guy Guru/Legend/(Insert Probably Another Fake Account Here) his clearly madPay him no mind El Payaso. Tenacity changes his mind every few weeks, usually following an episode. It's part of his BPD.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Idk, where is LEGEND lol? Are you going to log in as Legend tonight and respond to your own postsI can see why you abhorred those roasting sessions with your "peers." You lack wit.
BTW, where is 9Volt?![]()
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
But bro I date black women.....which means they have no "Dad" lolThe only concerning issue is 7. Wedding costs are usually for by the bride's dad btw. The rest can be avoided by choosing the right woman and growing a fvcking pair of nuts. Just realized what the link was and everything made sense. The brobilbe is **** haha.
Uhhhhh.........9 Reasons Why You Should Not Get Married, According to a Married Guy
And what if you'd like to have children?The only reason to get married is if her/her family is rich or powerful
You don't need to get married to your partner in order to have a child and raise it together with her.And what if you'd like to have children?
Would you prefer them to grow up in a single parent household with you just paying child support? At some point, it isn't just about you anymore.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.