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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
wifehunter
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I don't recommend marriage for atheists. It's not the business for unbelievers, which is likely why, mainstream marriage is a failure.
Enjoy your casual sex. That's all it is, anyway.
Enjoy your casual sex. That's all it is, anyway.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Honestly I don't really care about any of these reasons except the no sexual fun part and the money part. She can nag all she wants, but if she ain't doing anything to sexually please me, then I'm out. And the sex with on every partner for the rest of your life thing isn't even a big deal. What is a big deal is that people end up having sex the same old way over and over again. If you do something different each time, it's like having sex with a different person imo. Something I noticed with chicks is that you gotta not be afraid to stare at other fine women. Then they feel the competition:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
"9 Reasons Why You Should Not Get Married, According to a Married Guy"
Then why is he MARRIED? I think he likes being married and telling others that he is married, but doesn't want other people to get married. So he throws out every excuse in the book to convince guys not to get married.
Brutal.
Then why is he MARRIED? I think he likes being married and telling others that he is married, but doesn't want other people to get married. So he throws out every excuse in the book to convince guys not to get married.
Brutal.
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Pay him no mind El Payaso. Tenacity changes his mind every few weeks, usually following an episode. It's part of his BPD.
wifehunter
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I thought that was the other gender that did all the mind changing!
Tenacity
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Lol, I think those Poon King debates misled some guys. I have always been in support of the Red Pill, remember I authored these threads here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/women-are-lease-agreements-not-finance-agreements.226106/
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/todays-women-are-penny-stocks-not-blue-chip.225276/
Lol, what a hater. This guy Guru/Legend/(Insert Probably Another Fake Account Here) his clearly mad
.How in the hell can Guru make jokes about guys changing their mind, when he literally CHANGES his username every 2 or 3 months lol?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Tenacity
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Idk, where is LEGEND lol? Are you going to log in as Legend tonight and respond to your own postsI can see why you abhorred those roasting sessions with your "peers." You lack wit.
BTW, where is 9Volt?
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I'm not married. Sometimes I wish I could find someone. Then I realize that red pill just naturally weeds out bad marriage material. It's like natural selection, the weak just die off. Haven't found one worth keeping around yet. I still live my life thinking not all women are completely fos.
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Marriage is unnatural
EyeBRollin
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I had this very thought today. Just being in an LTR feels like prison. Marriage sounds worse than torture. Solution? Cheat.
devilkingx2
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The only reason to get married is if her/her family is rich or powerful
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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The only concerning issue is 7. Wedding costs are usually for by the bride's dad btw. The rest can be avoided by choosing the right woman and growing a fvcking pair of nuts. Just realized what the link was and everything made sense. The brobilbe is **** haha.
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But bro I date black women.....which means they have no "Dad" lol
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And what if you'd like to have children?
Would you prefer them to grow up in a single parent household with you just paying child support? At some point, it isn't just about you anymore.
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You don't need to get married to your partner in order to have a child and raise it together with her.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.