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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
wifehunter
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I don't recommend marriage for atheists. It's not the business for unbelievers, which is likely why, mainstream marriage is a failure.
Enjoy your casual sex. That's all it is, anyway.
Enjoy your casual sex. That's all it is, anyway.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Honestly I don't really care about any of these reasons except the no sexual fun part and the money part. She can nag all she wants, but if she ain't doing anything to sexually please me, then I'm out. And the sex with on every partner for the rest of your life thing isn't even a big deal. What is a big deal is that people end up having sex the same old way over and over again. If you do something different each time, it's like having sex with a different person imo. Something I noticed with chicks is that you gotta not be afraid to stare at other fine women. Then they feel the competition:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
"9 Reasons Why You Should Not Get Married, According to a Married Guy"
Then why is he MARRIED? I think he likes being married and telling others that he is married, but doesn't want other people to get married. So he throws out every excuse in the book to convince guys not to get married.
Brutal.
Then why is he MARRIED? I think he likes being married and telling others that he is married, but doesn't want other people to get married. So he throws out every excuse in the book to convince guys not to get married.
Brutal.
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Pay him no mind El Payaso. Tenacity changes his mind every few weeks, usually following an episode. It's part of his BPD.
wifehunter
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I thought that was the other gender that did all the mind changing!
Tenacity
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Lol, I think those Poon King debates misled some guys. I have always been in support of the Red Pill, remember I authored these threads here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/women-are-lease-agreements-not-finance-agreements.226106/
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/todays-women-are-penny-stocks-not-blue-chip.225276/
Lol, what a hater. This guy Guru/Legend/(Insert Probably Another Fake Account Here) his clearly mad
.How in the hell can Guru make jokes about guys changing their mind, when he literally CHANGES his username every 2 or 3 months lol?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Tenacity
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Idk, where is LEGEND lol? Are you going to log in as Legend tonight and respond to your own postsI can see why you abhorred those roasting sessions with your "peers." You lack wit.
BTW, where is 9Volt?
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I'm not married. Sometimes I wish I could find someone. Then I realize that red pill just naturally weeds out bad marriage material. It's like natural selection, the weak just die off. Haven't found one worth keeping around yet. I still live my life thinking not all women are completely fos.
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Marriage is unnatural
EyeBRollin
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I had this very thought today. Just being in an LTR feels like prison. Marriage sounds worse than torture. Solution? Cheat.
devilkingx2
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The only reason to get married is if her/her family is rich or powerful
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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The only concerning issue is 7. Wedding costs are usually for by the bride's dad btw. The rest can be avoided by choosing the right woman and growing a fvcking pair of nuts. Just realized what the link was and everything made sense. The brobilbe is **** haha.
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But bro I date black women.....which means they have no "Dad" lol
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And what if you'd like to have children?
Would you prefer them to grow up in a single parent household with you just paying child support? At some point, it isn't just about you anymore.
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You don't need to get married to your partner in order to have a child and raise it together with her.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.