Eighth Passenger
Don Juan
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I have nothing else to say.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The advice offered within this forum is NOT for everyone.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I actually kind of agree. I think the best way to get the most out of this site is to take the information and advice given here, and then tailor it to yourself.
You sort of have to pick and choose the tips you want to take. If you think you are doing fine in area X, but need to work on area Y, then disregard most of the stuff that talks about X and learn how to improve Y.
If we all did exactly what this site said to no one would be different. There is a ton of great advice, help, tips etc on this site, its up to you to decide what fits you and your goal.
You sort of have to pick and choose the tips you want to take. If you think you are doing fine in area X, but need to work on area Y, then disregard most of the stuff that talks about X and learn how to improve Y.
If we all did exactly what this site said to no one would be different. There is a ton of great advice, help, tips etc on this site, its up to you to decide what fits you and your goal.
evolvingnerd
Senior Don Juan
that is very true, as seen by the different countries
in america, girls are waaaaaaay more slutty than anywhere else
in some places, girls are extremely shy and reserved...
you get the idea
in america, girls are waaaaaaay more slutty than anywhere else
in some places, girls are extremely shy and reserved...
you get the idea
cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
We all know this. And the reason for that is because not everyone is willing or capable of learning the things that are discussed here.
I take it your referring to yourself? You've been here one month, you might try sticking around for awhile and learning some things.
I take it your referring to yourself? You've been here one month, you might try sticking around for awhile and learning some things.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
Lol.
Good point. In that case, disregard what I said. I agree
Good point. In that case, disregard what I said. I agree
Player_Supreme
Banned
I agree 100%. Some of us are true hard core players. Some are Symps and AFC LTRers. This section needs a hard core section for real players.
And a section for the Oprah lovers fan club. lol.
And a section for the Oprah lovers fan club. lol.
cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
No.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Player_Supreme
Banned
NO. But if your an AFC when you go into it then of course your going to be an AFC during and at the end of it.
Do you think that if I went into another ltr and I've been in 3 8 year ones that I'd be actin like an AFC? Hell naww kid.
The way you start is the way you will finish.