"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The 9 outta 10 that got away? Oh and I smashed my windshield....

BrandonCodi

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One day I was going to meet a friend on spring garden road, I was there first waiting for her and I saw this amazing girl at least a 9 out of 10. I started to talk to her and we talked for about 2 minutes and then suggested we sit down. After I had her sitting down it was very easy to talk to her, I also find it's good to get the number when you think the conversation is half way done. This way she knows you’re interested in getting her number but she also knows you want to learn more about her. We talked a bit after getting her number and I asked her on a date for tomorrow, She accepted. I picked her up the next day and we hung out a bit and fooled around and I started to finger her and her friend called saying her cat fell down the steps. She felt bad and was asking if she should stay or help the cat, I said she should help out her friend with the cat and I would drive her back. So we started to drive back and we got to the 1$ toll at the bridge and I was thinking I think I can run this. I tried and SMASHED THE **** out of my windshield, I was not angry just kind of irritated and I said thank God you are here it makes me a lot less stressed to be able to hold your hand. I think I came across to clingy to this girl, I did this only because in my head I placed this girl out of my league but that's obviously not true or she would not have hooked up with me, what do you guys think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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