"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The 48 laws of power make you a man of low value

tesla8520

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You ever read that book?
Basically would make you a low value man, because youve no integrity nor inner/internal validation or game.

This is the reverse of what makes a man attractive and successful in life, which is being stoic

If we want the good people and the good women in our life, we shall not follow those advices, but you may find it helpful to discover the people who are manipulators
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I partially agree with you in the sense that being dishonest makes you less effective in the long run because dishonest brings you into conflict with reality.

What makes a man attractive is being effective, which in essence comes from his ability to reason, not necessarily stoicism.
 

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You ever read that book?
Basically would make you a low value man, because youve no integrity nor inner/internal validation or game.

This is the reverse of what makes a man attractive and successful in life, which is being stoic

If we want the good people and the good women in our life, we shall not follow those advices, but you may find it helpful to discover the people who are manipulators
I do not think that you have understood the book.
 

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you can tell by the author's lips that he clearly nose something about '48...
 

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ner/internal validation
Men need validation from others, whether they admit it or not. Those who say otherwise should try living secluded from other human beings and see how it feels. They should go with no friends, no women, no family, no praise, affection, etc.

Stoicism = “I won by losing!”
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The author originally wrote 48 Laws Of Power not as a guidebook, but as an exposure of those who have power and get it and use it through manipulative means.

A "look how terrible powerful people are" kind of perspective from a weak, sour grapes standpoint.

The book took off, people started treated it as a 'how to book" and the author became an overnight success.

Since then, he's changed his tune and tried to write other "how to" books based on alleged secrets of human nature.

People who quote or reference the 48 Laws of Power do so to try to give themselves more status and credibility.

If you do wish to improve your social status and influence, there are far better books.

Sun Tzu (Art of War, the 36 Stratagems) and Machiavelli to name a couple.
 

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Mistaking ANY individual text for The Truth depletes your power. SOME might call that Low Value
 

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Mistaking ANY individual text for The Truth depletes your power. SOME might call that Low Value
Sure, but in practice it didn't matter how many nations expelled them; they kept persisting and now they run the world.
 

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knowledge can be power. how the man applies the knowledge is as valuable as the knowledge.
 

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Strongly disagree. Your viewpoint is a limiting belief. 48 Laws of Power is truly an insight into human behavior (as are his other books to varying degrees). How you leverage the information and to what extent is defined by your personal character and desired goals.

Everyone has degrees of narcissism, psychopathy and Machiavellianism, men and women alike, for example. Being aware of them doesn't suddenly make you full-blown versions of them. Same with the facets of the 48 Laws.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The old lady has The Prince, The Art of War, and 48 Laws of power at the bedside table at all times. Also the Art of Seduction a couple of Jordan Petersen books.

It benefits you to have a depth of understanding about human nature, especially as you find yourself surrounded by more upwardly mobile people.

Study and learn the game, lest you are easily outplayed.
 

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You ever read that book?
Basically would make you a low value man, because youve no integrity nor inner/internal validation or game.
So reading the book 48 Laws of Weakness would make you a high value man.
 

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You ever read that book?
Basically would make you a low value man, because youve no integrity nor inner/internal validation or game.

This is the reverse of what makes a man attractive and successful in life, which is being stoic

If we want the good people and the good women in our life, we shall not follow those advices, but you may find it helpful to discover the people who are manipulators
Going to guess this is an opinion coming from someone who has done very little in life and accomplished even less.
 
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