"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Watch out for lady boys.. :nono:
Watch out for pickpockets..
Watch out for cheap hookers, you will get more than you bargained for....
Besides that have a good time...
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Use sunscreen, get Cipro from your local doc as a just in case against travellers diarrhea.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Electronics are the same price everywhere, because the retailers have to import them from Japan and pay the same price you have to pay to import them to the states.mpimpin said:
As for food, don't eat any street food, make sure everything you ingest has been well cooked, no unpeeled fruits, no salads, lettuce or anything like that. Only eat in clean looking restuarants. If you're in Bangkok, the Siam Paragon plaza has lots of good clean places to eat but the prices for western quality food(as far health and safety) is going to cost western prices. You can get dirt cheap food in Thailand from the street vendors but it's risky. Bring pepto tablets and carry them with you just in case.
As for girls, I wouldn't mess with the hookers. There are lots of gorgeous girls in Thailand. Why not just try to sarge a normal girl, many of them speak English. They'll probably even be glad to show you around during the day.
yeah i feel ya on that, however Im hoping I will be able to pull backpacker chicks as asian broads are not really my type.speakeasy said:
I will be going to the full moon party and Im also there for nye so the backpacker population will be large.
Ill try for some local flavour aswell.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ken785
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Bible_Belt
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Opposite, easy to get.
The fish in the barrel are easier to hit than the ones in a lake, river, or ocean.