"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Watch out for lady boys.. :nono:
Watch out for pickpockets..
Watch out for cheap hookers, you will get more than you bargained for....
Besides that have a good time...
Bible_Belt
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bigjohnson
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Use sunscreen, get Cipro from your local doc as a just in case against travellers diarrhea.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Electronics are the same price everywhere, because the retailers have to import them from Japan and pay the same price you have to pay to import them to the states.mpimpin said:
As for food, don't eat any street food, make sure everything you ingest has been well cooked, no unpeeled fruits, no salads, lettuce or anything like that. Only eat in clean looking restuarants. If you're in Bangkok, the Siam Paragon plaza has lots of good clean places to eat but the prices for western quality food(as far health and safety) is going to cost western prices. You can get dirt cheap food in Thailand from the street vendors but it's risky. Bring pepto tablets and carry them with you just in case.
As for girls, I wouldn't mess with the hookers. There are lots of gorgeous girls in Thailand. Why not just try to sarge a normal girl, many of them speak English. They'll probably even be glad to show you around during the day.
yeah i feel ya on that, however Im hoping I will be able to pull backpacker chicks as asian broads are not really my type.speakeasy said:
I will be going to the full moon party and Im also there for nye so the backpacker population will be large.
Ill try for some local flavour aswell.
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bigjohnson
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ken785
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Bible_Belt
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Opposite, easy to get.
The fish in the barrel are easier to hit than the ones in a lake, river, or ocean.