"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Watch out for lady boys.. :nono:
Watch out for pickpockets..
Watch out for cheap hookers, you will get more than you bargained for....
Besides that have a good time...
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Use sunscreen, get Cipro from your local doc as a just in case against travellers diarrhea.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Electronics are the same price everywhere, because the retailers have to import them from Japan and pay the same price you have to pay to import them to the states.mpimpin said:
As for food, don't eat any street food, make sure everything you ingest has been well cooked, no unpeeled fruits, no salads, lettuce or anything like that. Only eat in clean looking restuarants. If you're in Bangkok, the Siam Paragon plaza has lots of good clean places to eat but the prices for western quality food(as far health and safety) is going to cost western prices. You can get dirt cheap food in Thailand from the street vendors but it's risky. Bring pepto tablets and carry them with you just in case.
As for girls, I wouldn't mess with the hookers. There are lots of gorgeous girls in Thailand. Why not just try to sarge a normal girl, many of them speak English. They'll probably even be glad to show you around during the day.
yeah i feel ya on that, however Im hoping I will be able to pull backpacker chicks as asian broads are not really my type.speakeasy said:
I will be going to the full moon party and Im also there for nye so the backpacker population will be large.
Ill try for some local flavour aswell.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ken785
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Bible_Belt
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Opposite, easy to get.
The fish in the barrel are easier to hit than the ones in a lake, river, or ocean.