"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yo guys, Im going to Thailand in december for 3 weeks and wanna know whats good to do there?

What food should I eat/not eat?
The hookers worth it or disease bags?
places to visit?

cheers guys
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Watch out for aids...

Watch out for lady boys.. :nono:

Watch out for pickpockets..

Watch out for cheap hookers, you will get more than you bargained for....

Besides that have a good time...
 

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No drugs. Some kid will come up to try to sell you something. If you take it, you will then get knocked over the head by the police, who employ kids like this, and then thrown into jail indefinitely. Their drug laws are insane.
 

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No drugs. Cheap beer = good. Hookers from bars = good. Hookers from street = bad idea unless you are local. Pataya is a sex playground, try a place called the Eden Club at least once.

Use sunscreen, get Cipro from your local doc as a just in case against travellers diarrhea.
 

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Not to high jack your thread but Are electronics and other items cheaper there?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mpimpin said:
Not to high jack your thread but Are electronics and other items cheaper there?
Electronics are the same price everywhere, because the retailers have to import them from Japan and pay the same price you have to pay to import them to the states.

As for food, don't eat any street food, make sure everything you ingest has been well cooked, no unpeeled fruits, no salads, lettuce or anything like that. Only eat in clean looking restuarants. If you're in Bangkok, the Siam Paragon plaza has lots of good clean places to eat but the prices for western quality food(as far health and safety) is going to cost western prices. You can get dirt cheap food in Thailand from the street vendors but it's risky. Bring pepto tablets and carry them with you just in case.

As for girls, I wouldn't mess with the hookers. There are lots of gorgeous girls in Thailand. Why not just try to sarge a normal girl, many of them speak English. They'll probably even be glad to show you around during the day.
 

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speakeasy said:
As for girls, I wouldn't mess with the hookers. There are lots of gorgeous girls in Thailand. Why not just try to sarge a normal girl, many of them speak English. They'll probably even be glad to show you around during the day.
yeah i feel ya on that, however Im hoping I will be able to pull backpacker chicks as asian broads are not really my type.
I will be going to the full moon party and Im also there for nye so the backpacker population will be large.

Ill try for some local flavour aswell.
 

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aww man! THAILAND?? i wanna go!! :wave: ever since i seen that movie "the beach" with leonardo decaprio. it looks soo cool!! :rockon:
 

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Pulling white chicks in Thailand is like shooting fish in a barrel. Suddenly 97% of the guys are getting a ton of local tail and the attention wh0res are all drinking alone. The only guys who will talk to them are crusty bums looking for free beer and a few locals looking for a "rich" girlfriend.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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shooting fish inside a barrel..i dont get that american metaphor..does that mean theyre hard to get? i thought young tourists were looking to fvck in foriegn countries??
 

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does that mean theyre hard to get?

Opposite, easy to get.

The fish in the barrel are easier to hit than the ones in a lake, river, or ocean.
 

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Getting girls internationally I don't think is any different than getting them at home. Same rules. If you got game, you'll do well, but if you don't, you won't. Going to abroad won't instantly transform you into a ladie's man if you already weren't...unless you plan to pay for it.
 
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