trojan17
Don Juan
I've been having some mild success with females, been getting many numbers but only text about 1-5 because I don't know how to start lol. Any suggestions?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Text game openers
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
for the first message, Some funny **** you said while you were getting her numbre
example: girl says she likes your shoes or some ****.. "Like my sexy shoes?
-Trojan"
Some **** like that
This has worked great for me... and if your really struggle say "hey, it's trojan"
example: girl says she likes your shoes or some ****.. "Like my sexy shoes?
-Trojan"Some **** like that
This has worked great for me... and if your really struggle say "hey, it's trojan"
MrNiceGuy23
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Like my sexy shoes? Honestly that just makes you sound metrosexual or gay.
You don't need an opener to text a girl. If you were funny and outgoing when you met the girl and got her number, then just saying "Hey, its MrNiceGuy23" should be enough for the girl to respond with a "Oh hey!!" If she has to ask who you are again or doesn't seem excited that you texted her, then you probably receive low interest from her or she gives her number out too easily.
Remember, routines in ANYTHING, texting, approaching, calling, etc is CHEESY. You don't want to sound rehearsed to a girl or give her some corny lines that she'll eventually read into and drop you cause you have no real game.
Real game is reading a woman's interest level, increasing this interest level through your looks, humor, conversation, and adapting to any curveballs she might throw at you to keep her interest level high. If you can't do these things, you'll be seen as boring, and the girl will stop giving you her time.
You don't need an opener to text a girl. If you were funny and outgoing when you met the girl and got her number, then just saying "Hey, its MrNiceGuy23" should be enough for the girl to respond with a "Oh hey!!" If she has to ask who you are again or doesn't seem excited that you texted her, then you probably receive low interest from her or she gives her number out too easily.
Remember, routines in ANYTHING, texting, approaching, calling, etc is CHEESY. You don't want to sound rehearsed to a girl or give her some corny lines that she'll eventually read into and drop you cause you have no real game.
Real game is reading a woman's interest level, increasing this interest level through your looks, humor, conversation, and adapting to any curveballs she might throw at you to keep her interest level high. If you can't do these things, you'll be seen as boring, and the girl will stop giving you her time.
MrNiceGuy23 said:
I agree. I think the standard "Hi it's x" or "Hello, it's x" are perfectly fine. If you start making openers specifically for girls you have interest in, you right away make them feel special or place them on a pedestal. That will hurt your game if they notice you are making them feel special.
Keep it simple is the best advice I can give to you.
Dude, do not be a try hard over text. I think this is the #1 mistake. If you try to be funny/witty etc. she will immediately be able to tell how bad you want her and your value will be lowered. etc. etc.
Straight forward, honest, and quickly and bluntly to the point is best. You're a ****ing man, not a damn kid who sends giddy texts and ****
Straight forward, honest, and quickly and bluntly to the point is best. You're a ****ing man, not a damn kid who sends giddy texts and ****
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
sheesh nobody liked mine, lol it's not that serious, it's self amusement.
I would just like to clarify, I'm gay, soo... that's why i said that as an example off the top of my head and I am a kid by the law... :rock:
and in all actuality it depends on how you presented your self in person. your guys opener would work fine... it just seems boring... you guys placing to much importance on "not messing up" if your not comfortable on a medium your going to probably mess up anyway when you start, so you can literally say and do anything you want... and most cases probably should.
I would just like to clarify, I'm gay, soo... that's why i said that as an example off the top of my head and I am a kid by the law... :rock:
and in all actuality it depends on how you presented your self in person. your guys opener would work fine... it just seems boring... you guys placing to much importance on "not messing up" if your not comfortable on a medium your going to probably mess up anyway when you start, so you can literally say and do anything you want... and most cases probably should.
That sounds horribleLandon7 said:Screw texting, text her a few times then hit her up with a call.
I always call the girl, usually ends up being a 8 hour all nighter call in which I can't get her to hang up...