trojan17
Don Juan
I've been having some mild success with females, been getting many numbers but only text about 1-5 because I don't know how to start lol. Any suggestions?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Text game openers
- Thread starter trojan17
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
for the first message, Some funny **** you said while you were getting her numbre
example: girl says she likes your shoes or some ****.. "Like my sexy shoes?
-Trojan"
Some **** like that
This has worked great for me... and if your really struggle say "hey, it's trojan"
example: girl says she likes your shoes or some ****.. "Like my sexy shoes?
-Trojan"Some **** like that
This has worked great for me... and if your really struggle say "hey, it's trojan"
MrNiceGuy23
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Like my sexy shoes? Honestly that just makes you sound metrosexual or gay.
You don't need an opener to text a girl. If you were funny and outgoing when you met the girl and got her number, then just saying "Hey, its MrNiceGuy23" should be enough for the girl to respond with a "Oh hey!!" If she has to ask who you are again or doesn't seem excited that you texted her, then you probably receive low interest from her or she gives her number out too easily.
Remember, routines in ANYTHING, texting, approaching, calling, etc is CHEESY. You don't want to sound rehearsed to a girl or give her some corny lines that she'll eventually read into and drop you cause you have no real game.
Real game is reading a woman's interest level, increasing this interest level through your looks, humor, conversation, and adapting to any curveballs she might throw at you to keep her interest level high. If you can't do these things, you'll be seen as boring, and the girl will stop giving you her time.
You don't need an opener to text a girl. If you were funny and outgoing when you met the girl and got her number, then just saying "Hey, its MrNiceGuy23" should be enough for the girl to respond with a "Oh hey!!" If she has to ask who you are again or doesn't seem excited that you texted her, then you probably receive low interest from her or she gives her number out too easily.
Remember, routines in ANYTHING, texting, approaching, calling, etc is CHEESY. You don't want to sound rehearsed to a girl or give her some corny lines that she'll eventually read into and drop you cause you have no real game.
Real game is reading a woman's interest level, increasing this interest level through your looks, humor, conversation, and adapting to any curveballs she might throw at you to keep her interest level high. If you can't do these things, you'll be seen as boring, and the girl will stop giving you her time.
MrNiceGuy23 said:
I agree. I think the standard "Hi it's x" or "Hello, it's x" are perfectly fine. If you start making openers specifically for girls you have interest in, you right away make them feel special or place them on a pedestal. That will hurt your game if they notice you are making them feel special.
Keep it simple is the best advice I can give to you.
Dude, do not be a try hard over text. I think this is the #1 mistake. If you try to be funny/witty etc. she will immediately be able to tell how bad you want her and your value will be lowered. etc. etc.
Straight forward, honest, and quickly and bluntly to the point is best. You're a ****ing man, not a damn kid who sends giddy texts and ****
Straight forward, honest, and quickly and bluntly to the point is best. You're a ****ing man, not a damn kid who sends giddy texts and ****
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
sheesh nobody liked mine, lol it's not that serious, it's self amusement.
I would just like to clarify, I'm gay, soo... that's why i said that as an example off the top of my head and I am a kid by the law... :rock:
and in all actuality it depends on how you presented your self in person. your guys opener would work fine... it just seems boring... you guys placing to much importance on "not messing up" if your not comfortable on a medium your going to probably mess up anyway when you start, so you can literally say and do anything you want... and most cases probably should.
I would just like to clarify, I'm gay, soo... that's why i said that as an example off the top of my head and I am a kid by the law... :rock:
and in all actuality it depends on how you presented your self in person. your guys opener would work fine... it just seems boring... you guys placing to much importance on "not messing up" if your not comfortable on a medium your going to probably mess up anyway when you start, so you can literally say and do anything you want... and most cases probably should.
That sounds horribleLandon7 said:Screw texting, text her a few times then hit her up with a call.
I always call the girl, usually ends up being a 8 hour all nighter call in which I can't get her to hang up...