trojan17
Don Juan
I've been having some mild success with females, been getting many numbers but only text about 1-5 because I don't know how to start lol. Any suggestions?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Text game openers
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
for the first message, Some funny **** you said while you were getting her numbre
example: girl says she likes your shoes or some ****.. "Like my sexy shoes?
-Trojan"
Some **** like that
This has worked great for me... and if your really struggle say "hey, it's trojan"
example: girl says she likes your shoes or some ****.. "Like my sexy shoes?
-Trojan"Some **** like that
This has worked great for me... and if your really struggle say "hey, it's trojan"
MrNiceGuy23
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Like my sexy shoes? Honestly that just makes you sound metrosexual or gay.
You don't need an opener to text a girl. If you were funny and outgoing when you met the girl and got her number, then just saying "Hey, its MrNiceGuy23" should be enough for the girl to respond with a "Oh hey!!" If she has to ask who you are again or doesn't seem excited that you texted her, then you probably receive low interest from her or she gives her number out too easily.
Remember, routines in ANYTHING, texting, approaching, calling, etc is CHEESY. You don't want to sound rehearsed to a girl or give her some corny lines that she'll eventually read into and drop you cause you have no real game.
Real game is reading a woman's interest level, increasing this interest level through your looks, humor, conversation, and adapting to any curveballs she might throw at you to keep her interest level high. If you can't do these things, you'll be seen as boring, and the girl will stop giving you her time.
You don't need an opener to text a girl. If you were funny and outgoing when you met the girl and got her number, then just saying "Hey, its MrNiceGuy23" should be enough for the girl to respond with a "Oh hey!!" If she has to ask who you are again or doesn't seem excited that you texted her, then you probably receive low interest from her or she gives her number out too easily.
Remember, routines in ANYTHING, texting, approaching, calling, etc is CHEESY. You don't want to sound rehearsed to a girl or give her some corny lines that she'll eventually read into and drop you cause you have no real game.
Real game is reading a woman's interest level, increasing this interest level through your looks, humor, conversation, and adapting to any curveballs she might throw at you to keep her interest level high. If you can't do these things, you'll be seen as boring, and the girl will stop giving you her time.
MrNiceGuy23 said:
I agree. I think the standard "Hi it's x" or "Hello, it's x" are perfectly fine. If you start making openers specifically for girls you have interest in, you right away make them feel special or place them on a pedestal. That will hurt your game if they notice you are making them feel special.
Keep it simple is the best advice I can give to you.
Dude, do not be a try hard over text. I think this is the #1 mistake. If you try to be funny/witty etc. she will immediately be able to tell how bad you want her and your value will be lowered. etc. etc.
Straight forward, honest, and quickly and bluntly to the point is best. You're a ****ing man, not a damn kid who sends giddy texts and ****
Straight forward, honest, and quickly and bluntly to the point is best. You're a ****ing man, not a damn kid who sends giddy texts and ****
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
sheesh nobody liked mine, lol it's not that serious, it's self amusement.
I would just like to clarify, I'm gay, soo... that's why i said that as an example off the top of my head and I am a kid by the law... :rock:
and in all actuality it depends on how you presented your self in person. your guys opener would work fine... it just seems boring... you guys placing to much importance on "not messing up" if your not comfortable on a medium your going to probably mess up anyway when you start, so you can literally say and do anything you want... and most cases probably should.
I would just like to clarify, I'm gay, soo... that's why i said that as an example off the top of my head and I am a kid by the law... :rock:
and in all actuality it depends on how you presented your self in person. your guys opener would work fine... it just seems boring... you guys placing to much importance on "not messing up" if your not comfortable on a medium your going to probably mess up anyway when you start, so you can literally say and do anything you want... and most cases probably should.
That sounds horribleLandon7 said:Screw texting, text her a few times then hit her up with a call.
I always call the girl, usually ends up being a 8 hour all nighter call in which I can't get her to hang up...