trojan17
Don Juan
I've been having some mild success with females, been getting many numbers but only text about 1-5 because I don't know how to start lol. Any suggestions?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Text game openers
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
for the first message, Some funny **** you said while you were getting her numbre
example: girl says she likes your shoes or some ****.. "Like my sexy shoes?
-Trojan"
Some **** like that
This has worked great for me... and if your really struggle say "hey, it's trojan"
example: girl says she likes your shoes or some ****.. "Like my sexy shoes?
-Trojan"Some **** like that
This has worked great for me... and if your really struggle say "hey, it's trojan"
MrNiceGuy23
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Like my sexy shoes? Honestly that just makes you sound metrosexual or gay.
You don't need an opener to text a girl. If you were funny and outgoing when you met the girl and got her number, then just saying "Hey, its MrNiceGuy23" should be enough for the girl to respond with a "Oh hey!!" If she has to ask who you are again or doesn't seem excited that you texted her, then you probably receive low interest from her or she gives her number out too easily.
Remember, routines in ANYTHING, texting, approaching, calling, etc is CHEESY. You don't want to sound rehearsed to a girl or give her some corny lines that she'll eventually read into and drop you cause you have no real game.
Real game is reading a woman's interest level, increasing this interest level through your looks, humor, conversation, and adapting to any curveballs she might throw at you to keep her interest level high. If you can't do these things, you'll be seen as boring, and the girl will stop giving you her time.
You don't need an opener to text a girl. If you were funny and outgoing when you met the girl and got her number, then just saying "Hey, its MrNiceGuy23" should be enough for the girl to respond with a "Oh hey!!" If she has to ask who you are again or doesn't seem excited that you texted her, then you probably receive low interest from her or she gives her number out too easily.
Remember, routines in ANYTHING, texting, approaching, calling, etc is CHEESY. You don't want to sound rehearsed to a girl or give her some corny lines that she'll eventually read into and drop you cause you have no real game.
Real game is reading a woman's interest level, increasing this interest level through your looks, humor, conversation, and adapting to any curveballs she might throw at you to keep her interest level high. If you can't do these things, you'll be seen as boring, and the girl will stop giving you her time.
MrNiceGuy23 said:
I agree. I think the standard "Hi it's x" or "Hello, it's x" are perfectly fine. If you start making openers specifically for girls you have interest in, you right away make them feel special or place them on a pedestal. That will hurt your game if they notice you are making them feel special.
Keep it simple is the best advice I can give to you.
Dude, do not be a try hard over text. I think this is the #1 mistake. If you try to be funny/witty etc. she will immediately be able to tell how bad you want her and your value will be lowered. etc. etc.
Straight forward, honest, and quickly and bluntly to the point is best. You're a ****ing man, not a damn kid who sends giddy texts and ****
Straight forward, honest, and quickly and bluntly to the point is best. You're a ****ing man, not a damn kid who sends giddy texts and ****
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
sheesh nobody liked mine, lol it's not that serious, it's self amusement.
I would just like to clarify, I'm gay, soo... that's why i said that as an example off the top of my head and I am a kid by the law... :rock:
and in all actuality it depends on how you presented your self in person. your guys opener would work fine... it just seems boring... you guys placing to much importance on "not messing up" if your not comfortable on a medium your going to probably mess up anyway when you start, so you can literally say and do anything you want... and most cases probably should.
I would just like to clarify, I'm gay, soo... that's why i said that as an example off the top of my head and I am a kid by the law... :rock:
and in all actuality it depends on how you presented your self in person. your guys opener would work fine... it just seems boring... you guys placing to much importance on "not messing up" if your not comfortable on a medium your going to probably mess up anyway when you start, so you can literally say and do anything you want... and most cases probably should.
That sounds horribleLandon7 said:Screw texting, text her a few times then hit her up with a call.
I always call the girl, usually ends up being a 8 hour all nighter call in which I can't get her to hang up...