"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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**** test or just *****?

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Hey guys :D

So im txting some girl i have no real intention of dating (I have a gf and she has a bf), however I like having her there to practice my game :rock:

Anyway, she knows i used to like her a couple months ago, before i got together with my gf that is and we have recently started texting each other over the last couple weeks, just random texts, teasing each other etc...

So last night I get a text, 'blah blah blah, i cant be assed to text you'. I'm thinking :trouble: Needless to say i dont text her back, then an hour later i get a text saying, 'aww offended :L'. More :trouble: . So I text her saying if she doesnt want to text me thats fine :L. She then carrys on texting like nothing happened... WTF?

This is a **** test right? & if so why is she giving it to me? Is this chick into me or something?

Help me guys :confused: :confused: :confused:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Also i think ive been giving this chick too much of my time, so whats the best way to break a convosation politely?

'Ill text you back later, if your lucky ;)' Then dont text her back later?

Thanks guys :D
 
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Go no contact... I don't know why, but just do it.
 
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SamTheHobit said:
Go no contact... I don't know why, but just do it.
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I dont think this will help as I haven't been rejected or dumped by this chick, tbh i couldn't care how this goes, just practising my game. Shes hot (about a 8.5) and has guy friends that follow her around :crackup:

Literally all my texts are negs and i basically take the pi*s outta her, while maintaining my ****y & funny :D so i make sure Im not ego feeding, yet she still texts me all the time, anyone know why?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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acerazor1 said:
can any of you give me some clarification on this???
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Maybe a few more emoticons would help. :rockon: :yes: :trouble:
 
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Iceberg said:
Maybe a few more emoticons would help. :rockon: :yes: :trouble:
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wow sorry bro, guess i have better things to do than count my emoticons
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What's the big deal here?
Maybe she likes you, but then that might not be reason enough for her to leave her bf or do anything with you. She could just be intent on teasing you if she thinks neither of you are likely to cheat on their partner.

I'd try not to put much effort into this if I were you, just maintain aloof, funny & make her work to get your attention whilst still "spinning the plates".
 
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Sounds like she may like you
 
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