"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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**** test or just *****?

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Hey guys :D

So im txting some girl i have no real intention of dating (I have a gf and she has a bf), however I like having her there to practice my game :rock:

Anyway, she knows i used to like her a couple months ago, before i got together with my gf that is and we have recently started texting each other over the last couple weeks, just random texts, teasing each other etc...

So last night I get a text, 'blah blah blah, i cant be assed to text you'. I'm thinking :trouble: Needless to say i dont text her back, then an hour later i get a text saying, 'aww offended :L'. More :trouble: . So I text her saying if she doesnt want to text me thats fine :L. She then carrys on texting like nothing happened... WTF?

This is a **** test right? & if so why is she giving it to me? Is this chick into me or something?

Help me guys :confused: :confused: :confused:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Also i think ive been giving this chick too much of my time, so whats the best way to break a convosation politely?

'Ill text you back later, if your lucky ;)' Then dont text her back later?

Thanks guys :D
 
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Go no contact... I don't know why, but just do it.
 
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SamTheHobit said:
Go no contact... I don't know why, but just do it.
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I dont think this will help as I haven't been rejected or dumped by this chick, tbh i couldn't care how this goes, just practising my game. Shes hot (about a 8.5) and has guy friends that follow her around :crackup:

Literally all my texts are negs and i basically take the pi*s outta her, while maintaining my ****y & funny :D so i make sure Im not ego feeding, yet she still texts me all the time, anyone know why?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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acerazor1 said:
can any of you give me some clarification on this???
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Maybe a few more emoticons would help. :rockon: :yes: :trouble:
 
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Iceberg said:
Maybe a few more emoticons would help. :rockon: :yes: :trouble:
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wow sorry bro, guess i have better things to do than count my emoticons
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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JohnnyStorm

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What's the big deal here?
Maybe she likes you, but then that might not be reason enough for her to leave her bf or do anything with you. She could just be intent on teasing you if she thinks neither of you are likely to cheat on their partner.

I'd try not to put much effort into this if I were you, just maintain aloof, funny & make her work to get your attention whilst still "spinning the plates".
 
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Sounds like she may like you
 
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