"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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**** test or just *****?

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Hey guys :D

So im txting some girl i have no real intention of dating (I have a gf and she has a bf), however I like having her there to practice my game :rock:

Anyway, she knows i used to like her a couple months ago, before i got together with my gf that is and we have recently started texting each other over the last couple weeks, just random texts, teasing each other etc...

So last night I get a text, 'blah blah blah, i cant be assed to text you'. I'm thinking :trouble: Needless to say i dont text her back, then an hour later i get a text saying, 'aww offended :L'. More :trouble: . So I text her saying if she doesnt want to text me thats fine :L. She then carrys on texting like nothing happened... WTF?

This is a **** test right? & if so why is she giving it to me? Is this chick into me or something?

Help me guys :confused: :confused: :confused:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Also i think ive been giving this chick too much of my time, so whats the best way to break a convosation politely?

'Ill text you back later, if your lucky ;)' Then dont text her back later?

Thanks guys :D
 
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Go no contact... I don't know why, but just do it.
 
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SamTheHobit said:
Go no contact... I don't know why, but just do it.
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I dont think this will help as I haven't been rejected or dumped by this chick, tbh i couldn't care how this goes, just practising my game. Shes hot (about a 8.5) and has guy friends that follow her around :crackup:

Literally all my texts are negs and i basically take the pi*s outta her, while maintaining my ****y & funny :D so i make sure Im not ego feeding, yet she still texts me all the time, anyone know why?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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acerazor1 said:
can any of you give me some clarification on this???
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Maybe a few more emoticons would help. :rockon: :yes: :trouble:
 
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Iceberg said:
Maybe a few more emoticons would help. :rockon: :yes: :trouble:
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wow sorry bro, guess i have better things to do than count my emoticons
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's the big deal here?
Maybe she likes you, but then that might not be reason enough for her to leave her bf or do anything with you. She could just be intent on teasing you if she thinks neither of you are likely to cheat on their partner.

I'd try not to put much effort into this if I were you, just maintain aloof, funny & make her work to get your attention whilst still "spinning the plates".
 
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Sounds like she may like you
 
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