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**** test or just *****?

acerazor1

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Hey guys :D

So im txting some girl i have no real intention of dating (I have a gf and she has a bf), however I like having her there to practice my game :rock:

Anyway, she knows i used to like her a couple months ago, before i got together with my gf that is and we have recently started texting each other over the last couple weeks, just random texts, teasing each other etc...

So last night I get a text, 'blah blah blah, i cant be assed to text you'. I'm thinking :trouble: Needless to say i dont text her back, then an hour later i get a text saying, 'aww offended :L'. More :trouble: . So I text her saying if she doesnt want to text me thats fine :L. She then carrys on texting like nothing happened... WTF?

This is a **** test right? & if so why is she giving it to me? Is this chick into me or something?

Help me guys :confused: :confused: :confused:
 

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Also i think ive been giving this chick too much of my time, so whats the best way to break a convosation politely?

'Ill text you back later, if your lucky ;)' Then dont text her back later?

Thanks guys :D
 

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Go no contact... I don't know why, but just do it.
 

acerazor1

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SamTheHobit said:
Go no contact... I don't know why, but just do it.
I dont think this will help as I haven't been rejected or dumped by this chick, tbh i couldn't care how this goes, just practising my game. Shes hot (about a 8.5) and has guy friends that follow her around :crackup:

Literally all my texts are negs and i basically take the pi*s outta her, while maintaining my ****y & funny :D so i make sure Im not ego feeding, yet she still texts me all the time, anyone know why?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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acerazor1 said:
can any of you give me some clarification on this???
Maybe a few more emoticons would help. :rockon: :yes: :trouble:
 

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Iceberg said:
Maybe a few more emoticons would help. :rockon: :yes: :trouble:
wow sorry bro, guess i have better things to do than count my emoticons
 

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Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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JohnnyStorm

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What's the big deal here?
Maybe she likes you, but then that might not be reason enough for her to leave her bf or do anything with you. She could just be intent on teasing you if she thinks neither of you are likely to cheat on their partner.

I'd try not to put much effort into this if I were you, just maintain aloof, funny & make her work to get your attention whilst still "spinning the plates".
 

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Sounds like she may like you
 
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