"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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**** test or just *****?

acerazor1

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Hey guys :D

So im txting some girl i have no real intention of dating (I have a gf and she has a bf), however I like having her there to practice my game :rock:

Anyway, she knows i used to like her a couple months ago, before i got together with my gf that is and we have recently started texting each other over the last couple weeks, just random texts, teasing each other etc...

So last night I get a text, 'blah blah blah, i cant be assed to text you'. I'm thinking :trouble: Needless to say i dont text her back, then an hour later i get a text saying, 'aww offended :L'. More :trouble: . So I text her saying if she doesnt want to text me thats fine :L. She then carrys on texting like nothing happened... WTF?

This is a **** test right? & if so why is she giving it to me? Is this chick into me or something?

Help me guys :confused: :confused: :confused:
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Also i think ive been giving this chick too much of my time, so whats the best way to break a convosation politely?

'Ill text you back later, if your lucky ;)' Then dont text her back later?

Thanks guys :D
 

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Go no contact... I don't know why, but just do it.
 

acerazor1

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SamTheHobit said:
Go no contact... I don't know why, but just do it.
I dont think this will help as I haven't been rejected or dumped by this chick, tbh i couldn't care how this goes, just practising my game. Shes hot (about a 8.5) and has guy friends that follow her around :crackup:

Literally all my texts are negs and i basically take the pi*s outta her, while maintaining my ****y & funny :D so i make sure Im not ego feeding, yet she still texts me all the time, anyone know why?
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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acerazor1 said:
can any of you give me some clarification on this???
Maybe a few more emoticons would help. :rockon: :yes: :trouble:
 

acerazor1

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Iceberg said:
Maybe a few more emoticons would help. :rockon: :yes: :trouble:
wow sorry bro, guess i have better things to do than count my emoticons
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JohnnyStorm

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What's the big deal here?
Maybe she likes you, but then that might not be reason enough for her to leave her bf or do anything with you. She could just be intent on teasing you if she thinks neither of you are likely to cheat on their partner.

I'd try not to put much effort into this if I were you, just maintain aloof, funny & make her work to get your attention whilst still "spinning the plates".
 

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Sounds like she may like you
 
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