"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ten Commandments of a Don Juan

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If anything seems repetitious just coment and we can, together, set up a basic guidline to living the Don Juan dream.

1. Thou shalt not set of any task or person upon the pedestal.

2. Thou shalt not be set back by fear.

3. Self-improvement must be one's number one goal.

4. If thou shalt face rejection or hardship, take it as a GAIN of experience and see the positive side to every aspect that may pass you on your life's path.

5. One's mind must ban any and every negative thought.

6. Never let any man or woman dissrespect you.

7. Always have a hobbie, goal, project, invention, ect. going on for your life

8. think and you shall become

9. Have no concern with what doesn't have to do with YOUR life, and that that doesn't add to your life in a positive manner. (girl drama is a fine example)

10. Always make the best of a situation and have fun with what you do.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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you forgot the eleventh one.

11.) Thou shalt not become fat.

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Really great, but I disagree with 9. It's really DJ to do all that "be involved with the greater good" stuff. Be able to brag to chicks about the orphans you help or whatever. You know, 'Bruce Wayne'.
 

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redspicyflag said:
Didn't pook already have this?
I think I did see a Pook post with the commandments, but every DJ will have a slightly different set of ideals.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'd change:
8. think and you shall become

To:
8. ACT/DO and you shall become
 

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mr_elor said:
Hehe, pretty much all of them are my current guidelines to live by.

Number 9's an underrated one. Sometimes you won't be doing too well on the female side of things whilst your mates are constantly getting sex, and it's important not to let this affect you because, well it has no effect on you. Only consider how you used to be, and how you are now.

I'd like to add a few:

  • Be chilled, don't try to hard (to make people like you).
  • Exercise self-control and patience
  • Never give a shyt what anyone thinks, you're always gonna have one or two doubters or naysayers.


yes i do agree with you and thanks for adding to these This was just kinda for fun so better commandments are a GOOD thing much appreciation we don't really have to stop at ten do we? they're are people who posted before you that were wanting to complain. I see it this way that djs are suppsoed to have hobbies and one of mine is to help others understand the principles of a DJ better. I haven't seen any commandments by Pook, but if he did write any then, that may shows a similarity in ideas and for those saying this is a waste of time are wasting time to write such a message. Am I RIGHT? but its for fun so ne more ideas to add are more than welcome. keep em comin'
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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benjiprice said:
I'd change:
8. think and you shall become

To:
8. ACT/DO and you shall become
How about:

8. Think/Act/Analyize/Adjust and you shall become
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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yeh thats true i do this during work breaks and sometimes lunch hours. but it gives me a hobbie where i can give and get help when needed. during those free minutes.
 
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